When did it become a social norm to walk around with your eyes glued to your cell phone? When did cyber interactions replace physical interactions? When did it become ok to type on your phone while crossing the street? When did texting while driving become popular?

Honestly, I am totally a hypocrite. I occasionally walk around while typing away on my little mobile screen. I sometimes cross the street without even realizing it because I am too busy typing on my phone. I talk to people over social media, we all do. What I am wondering is why we are no longer able to enjoy the magic of the moment.

Why do we always need to be absorbed in a virtual reality? Why are we so focused on making our lives look fun and intriguing rather than just actually having fun? What is so wrong with living in the present?

A few weeks ago, I decided that when walking to and from school, I would place my cell phone in my jacket pocket. This was not a random choice. Actually, just a few minutes before coming up with this idea and making this decision, something happened. I was on Instagram and I was unknowingly crossing a major street on my way to school. I only took my eyes off of my feed when I heard the loud sound of a car horn go off right in front of me. I was walking in the middle of the street while the "no walking" sign was lit up. Thankfully the driver of the car that honked its horn at me was paying attention to the road. I, on the other hand, had been totally unaware of my surroundings.

I am not grateful that this experience had to occur in order for me to make the decision to put my phone down and enjoy my life in the present time. However, I am grateful that I have made this decision. My walks to and from school have become very peaceful and relaxing. I use this time to think about my life and prepare myself for the day. I smile at strangers. I notice new things about South Central. I breathe.

While interacting with your friends via social media is entertaining, I challenge you all to try and put your phone away for at least a few minutes the next time you are in a public setting. You may find that living in the present and actually experiencing your life is even more fun than living a virtual life through your phone. I know that I have found this to be true.