Over the past few years, I have struggled with my body. Embracing who you are can be difficult by itself, but trying to find clothes that fit you correctly has been a difficult journey.
I am now glad that I can say that difficult journey is turning around.
At first, I would go to a store and become incredibly frustrated that I could not find clothes that fit me. Of course the clothes that did fit me were not to my liking and seemed to be for older women. Stores that I used to fit in soon changed, even though I still fit in the old clothes I had.
After struggling for so long, the Forever 21 at the mall close to me added a plus-size section. I was able to find clothes in my style that actually fit me. I teared up initially because I had finally been able to find clothes that I loved in my size.
I recently discovered Torrid. I came about Torrid in an odd way with YouTube hauls. I was a little upset thinking everything was just online. I gained the courage to order a bathing suit a few months ago and loved the fit. Prior to this, I could never wear a bikini because I knew all of my insecurities would hang out. With a high-waisted bottom, I was able to pull it off and feel comfortable while looking amazing. The stereotype that plus-sized women cannot wear a bikini is so false.
I feared I could not fit into other items because I could not go to the store and try them on. Then I found a store close to school, then one close to home.
The first time I stepped foot inside a Torrid store, my heart started racing at all the amazing patterns and colors I saw. What made me really excited was that each item was going to be able to fit me.
I slowly started to realize that there would be no struggle to find a size. There would be no defeat in the dressing room as a pair of pants would not fit over my hips. I wouldn't leave empty-handed. This store was my heaven.
Retailers have finally realized it's hard enough to overcome the harsh struggle with body image, and having plus-sized clothing in store is a big help.
JCPenney just released a new ad campaign called, "Here I Am."
The video opens with a powerful statement that resonates so much with me: “Would my life be better if I were thinner? No. But it would be better if I wasn’t treated so poorly because I’m not.”
I just want to send all my appreciation and gratitude to the retailers that are making it easier for plus-sized women to go into the world feeling more confident in their bodies. The struggle will still continue, but having role models that showcase real women that can resemble the women purchasing the product will lessen the blow.
There is no better feeling than walking into a store where you know your size will not stop you from being a normal customer. You don't realize how much you appreciate this until it's gone.























