Finding Hope
Start writing a post
Health and Wellness

Finding Hope

When all the stress of being a student feels pulls you down, remember why you pursued an education in the first place.

15
Finding Hope
FIU NEWS

"These will be the best years of your life."

That is one phrase almost every college student hears as they begin their journey. We frequently forget along the way, due to stress, homework, and studying, that quote we heard as we stepped out of our homes and onto campus. The amount of stress placed on a college student today has proven to compromise the reason why they began this journey in the first place. We attend school in hopes of a better future, creating lifelong friendships, and (especially here at Bloomsburg) having fun. Somewhere along the way, it is easy for many students to lose sight of our initial intentions when the weight of being a student feels almost unbearable. We have all had that day where the idea of the future starts to scare us, we become unsure of our strength, and we question ourselves. I personally have experienced the toll self doubt can take on a college student. The combination of being away from family, the stress in and out of the classroom, and the anxiety that follows the stress can create a dangerous mindset for many students. Those feelings: loneliness, anxiety, and stress have led many students to depression.

Unfortunately, many students believe the amount of stress they endure is normal, however too much stress can lead to further problems for students. The number one cause of suicide is untreated depression. The amount of stress placed on a student combined with untreated depression can lead to suicidal thoughts. Due to this becoming a more common issue on campuses across the country, many college campuses have decided that now is the best time to inform students of suicide awareness and prevention. Unfortunately, some students that deal with untreated depression do not seek help and take their own lives to escape the pressures.

Photo by Amanda Wunder at The University of North Carolina at Greensboro

With hours of work and anxiety for the future, it is common for college students to lose sight of why they began this journey in the first place. Whether you dreamed of being a teacher or a doctor, we all started on this journey for a reason. Somewhere along the way, the work and stress may cause you to break down and lead you to feeling depressed and defeated. As Dory once said, "Just keep swimming." The end may seem far away, and the stress may seem too much to bear, but if you keep pushing forward and working hard, it will all pay off. That piece of paper we are all striving for, is the key that will take us to all the places we hope to see, do all the things we've dreamed of doing, and make all the hard work we endured finally worth it.

Campuses around the country are finding ways to better help students dealing with depression. Today some are even turning to our devices to help us. East Stroudsburg University is even promoting a suicide prevention app, http://www.my3app.org/. This allows students who are having suicidal thoughts to reach out for help, no matter where they are, simply by using a mobile app on their phone. Students having suicidal thoughts are urged to reach out an get help. The National Suicide Hotline is also available 24/7; 1-800-273-TALK.

It's never too late to reach out for help. And when things are getting rough and you feel like you're in over your head, just remember the dream that brought you here. Remember why you started in the first place, and keep that flame of hope inside you lit. All the troubles and tribulations as a student will be worth it when you're living your definition of success and the tears of your troubles are just dried up memories of harder times.


Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
the beatles
Wikipedia Commons

For as long as I can remember, I have been listening to The Beatles. Every year, my mom would appropriately blast “Birthday” on anyone’s birthday. I knew all of the words to “Back In The U.S.S.R” by the time I was 5 (Even though I had no idea what or where the U.S.S.R was). I grew up with John, Paul, George, and Ringo instead Justin, JC, Joey, Chris and Lance (I had to google N*SYNC to remember their names). The highlight of my short life was Paul McCartney in concert twice. I’m not someone to “fangirl” but those days I fangirled hard. The music of The Beatles has gotten me through everything. Their songs have brought me more joy, peace, and comfort. I can listen to them in any situation and find what I need. Here are the best lyrics from The Beatles for every and any occasion.

Keep Reading...Show less
Being Invisible The Best Super Power

The best superpower ever? Being invisible of course. Imagine just being able to go from seen to unseen on a dime. Who wouldn't want to have the opportunity to be invisible? Superman and Batman have nothing on being invisible with their superhero abilities. Here are some things that you could do while being invisible, because being invisible can benefit your social life too.

Keep Reading...Show less
houses under green sky
Photo by Alev Takil on Unsplash

Small towns certainly have their pros and cons. Many people who grow up in small towns find themselves counting the days until they get to escape their roots and plant new ones in bigger, "better" places. And that's fine. I'd be lying if I said I hadn't thought those same thoughts before too. We all have, but they say it's important to remember where you came from. When I think about where I come from, I can't help having an overwhelming feeling of gratitude for my roots. Being from a small town has taught me so many important lessons that I will carry with me for the rest of my life.

Keep Reading...Show less
​a woman sitting at a table having a coffee
nappy.co

I can't say "thank you" enough to express how grateful I am for you coming into my life. You have made such a huge impact on my life. I would not be the person I am today without you and I know that you will keep inspiring me to become an even better version of myself.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

Waitlisted for a College Class? Here's What to Do!

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

94900
college students waiting in a long line in the hallway
StableDiffusion

Course registration at college can be a big hassle and is almost never talked about. Classes you want to take fill up before you get a chance to register. You might change your mind about a class you want to take and must struggle to find another class to fit in the same time period. You also have to make sure no classes clash by time. Like I said, it's a big hassle.

This semester, I was waitlisted for two classes. Most people in this situation, especially first years, freak out because they don't know what to do. Here is what you should do when this happens.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments