Sadly, this is not a post about the phenomenal film of “The Perks of Being a Wallflower” with Logan Lerman and Emma Watson (though I highly recommend it––10/10, would watch again). This is a shout out to all those quiet individuals who embrace the characteristics of the introvert. These wallflowers pretty much fade into the background of their extroverted peers and no one really seems to pay attention to them. Wallflowers are stereotypically considered awkward loners who are self-absorbed introverts. Well, from my own experiences, I’m here to tell you that this stereotype is whack. You wallflowers are fantastic.
When you do say something, people get really excited.
Some people might think you’re not listening to the group conversation because you haven’t said a word but once you say something sassy or even philosophical, the group gets hyphy and praises your witty self. And, in turn, you’ll turn into a bright tomato from embarrassment. But that’s quite all right; embrace it like the rockstar you are.
No pressure to go out.
Every time your friends go out, they will considerately invite you and expect you to say no (I mean, what introvert can resist eating ice cream in bed without pants). Have no fear, though; they will still love you and appreciate your delightfulness.
When you do go out, they will be thrilled beyond belief.
You’ll see them sadly walk away after you say "no" but the day you say "yes," you will have made them happy within 10 seconds. What a glorious moment.
People consider you to be an excellent listener.
Some people just want someone to vent to and they are not really seeking advice. You are the perfect person for them. They are glad that someone is just listening to them and making them feel valued.
Dang wallflower, you’re so encouraging.
You spend time getting to know yourself.
As a wallflower, you spend a lot of time observing people. Often, you are able to learn from other people’s mistakes and apply them to your own life. Through self reassurance and time alone, you'll realize how much you relate to Beyonce herself. Like Queen Bey, you're flawless.
Wallflowers, like myself, get caught up in the negative stereotype of an introvert and often forget their own value. To our extroverted friends, thanks for being the accepting people you are and helping us grow into majestic creatures.
