7 Things To Do When You Start To Overthink Things

7 Things To Do When You Start To Overthink Things

Overthinking can be extremely stressful, try these seven things to help out.

Overthinking will drive anyone insane, especially those who overthink everything. Simple everyday tasks will become nightmares when every part of every day is planned out to the second. Not only is everything planned out, but there is a backup plan for every plan and each backup plan has a backup plan. Here are seven things to do when you start to overthink things.

1. Do Something Completely Different

This might sound like the most redundant thing to do, but it helps. If you get distracted from the thing you're overthinking, then you won't have to worry about it anymore. Find something new to do, but make sure it's something productive because then you'll end up stressing over wasting time and that leads to more overthinking.

2. Color

"Adult" coloring books are extremely popular right now. The relaxing patterns can soothe you and pull your mind away from all the things you're overthinking. Not only do the patterns in the book relax you, the color patterns that you use will help.

3. Exercise

Get out, go run. Feel your feet hit the pavement with every step. Run until you cannot run anymore and everything in your body burns. I promise, you'll be so distracted by the burning feeling in your lungs that you won't be overthinking anything. Running isn't the only answer, there are several different forms of exercise that can be used as distractions. Pick your poison and get going!

4. Hangout With Friends

Friends are always the best distraction, especially if they know they are supposed to be a distraction. Being around someone who can make you laugh will pull your mind away form everything that you think you're supposed to overthink. When you're with friends, you'll have fun and be able to relax.

5. Make Sure You're Taking Care Of Yourself

Are you hydrated? Have you eaten healthy foods lately? Make sure you're taking care of yourself. If your body isn't in tune with your mind, then overthinking is a guarantee. Take some time to yourself and respect your body. Drink plenty of water and eat healthy. If your body is feeling sluggish, then your mind will lack too.

6. Get Some Rest

Even if you're not feeling tired, overthinking makes you mentally exhausted. Get plenty of sleep or rest. Even if you aren't sleeping, just go sit back, relax and close your eyes. Once your mind is recharged it'll be easier to focus and not overthink every little thing.

7. Listen To Music

Listening to music can take you to a whole different place. Putting headphones on and turning music up will either help pull you out of overthinking or it will allow you to concentrate on what needs to be done. Music is overall the best way to change your mood and help you focus, get motivated or just relax.

Overthinking can get the best of anyone, but knowing how to handle it can make life a million times easier. Next time you're feeling stressed out remember to step back and breathe then think of something you can do to get your mind off things or focus on what needs to be done. Ultimately, relax and take care of yourself before handling everyone else's issues.

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​An Open Letter To The People Who Don’t Tip Their Servers

This one's for you.

Dear Person Who Has No Idea How Much The 0 In The “Tip:" Line Matters,

I want to by asking you a simple question: Why?

Is it because you can't afford it? Is it because you are blind to the fact that the tip you leave is how the waiter/waitress serving you is making their living? Is it because you're just lazy and you “don't feel like it"?

Is it because you think that, while taking care of not only your table but at least three to five others, they took too long bringing you that side of ranch dressing? Or is it just because you're unaware that as a server these people make $2.85 an hour plus TIPS?

The average waiter/waitress is only supposed to be paid $2.13 an hour plus tips according to the U.S. Department of Labor.

That then leaves the waiter/waitress with a paycheck with the numbers **$0.00** and the words “Not a real paycheck." stamped on it. Therefore these men and women completely rely on the tips they make during the week to pay their bills.

So, with that being said, I have a few words for those of you who are ignorant enough to leave without leaving a few dollars in the “tip:" line.

Imagine if you go to work, the night starts off slow, then almost like a bomb went off the entire workplace is chaotic and you can't seem to find a minute to stop and breathe, let alone think about what to do next.

Imagine that you are helping a total of six different groups of people at one time, with each group containing two to 10 people.

Imagine that you are working your ass off to make sure that these customers have the best experience possible. Then you cash them out, you hand them a pen and a receipt, say “Thank you so much! It was a pleasure serving you, have a great day!"

Imagine you walk away to attempt to start one of the 17 other things you need to complete, watch as the group you just thanked leaves, and maybe even wave goodbye.

Imagine you are cleaning up the mess that they have so kindly left behind, you look down at the receipt and realize there's a sad face on the tip line of a $24.83 bill.

Imagine how devastated you feel knowing that you helped these people as much as you could just to have them throw water on the fire you need to complete the night.

Now, realize that whenever you decide not to tip your waitress, this is nine out of 10 times what they go through. I cannot stress enough how important it is for people to realize that this is someone's profession — whether they are a college student, a single mother working their second job of the day, a new dad who needs to pay off the loan he needed to take out to get a safer car for his child, your friend, your mom, your dad, your sister, your brother, you.

If you cannot afford to tip, do not come out to eat. If you cannot afford the three alcoholic drinks you gulped down, plus your food and a tip do not come out to eat.

If you cannot afford the $10 wings that become half-off on Tuesdays plus that water you asked for, do not come out to eat.

If you cannot see that the person in front of you is working their best to accommodate you, while trying to do the same for the other five tables around you, do not come out to eat. If you cannot realize that the man or woman in front of you is a real person, with their own personal lives and problems and that maybe these problems have led them to be the reason they are standing in front of you, then do not come out to eat.

As a server myself, it kills me to see the people around me being deprived of the money that they were supposed to earn. It kills me to see the three dollars you left on a $40 bill. It kills me that you cannot stand to put yourself in our shoes — as if you're better than us. I wonder if you realize that you single-handedly ruined part of our nights.

I wonder if maybe one day you will be in our shoes, and I hope to God no one treats you how you have treated us. But if they do, then maybe you'll realize how we felt when you left no tip after we gave you our time.

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