To Those Who Wait for No One,

I think that, often times than not, I have to rely on myself for a lot of things. When I was younger, I believed that everyone would automatically have my best interest and act upon those. In other words, if someone saw me having a rough time, they'd say something kind or do something to help.

As with most things when we get older, that belief quickly changed within me. It wasn't so much as me not trusting anyone, but relying heavier on myself to get things done, especially if it involved a goal. I never would expect others to be considerate as before, but I did find myself lingering around in hope that they would. I don't mean psychically hanging around other people, but emotionally believing that others would help. There was this remaining hope that there was still consideration to be found within everyone around me.

In my adult life, this statement is true to an extent. There is conscious effort and consideration in everyone, however, it's up to each individual on how, when, and with whom to use these. Some may never use it at all. That also goes for using effort for themselves to achieve what they want most. I know this sounds a bit confusing and maybe even far fetched, but waiting around for someone to place effort and consideration into what you're doing can hold you back. It's when you do things yourself and for yourself that dreams can become reality. There are too many days within the year to sit and wait. If you know what you want, get up and get it for yourself with all the passion and heart you have. Even if you don't know what you want, get what makes you happiest.

There is still something to think about though: rely on those around you who have no intention of leaving you. Do things on your own, yes, but don't push away those who support and love you the most. These are the gems of careful effort and consideration that can take you far. It's ok to be the One Who Waits for No One, but like myself, there is so much love around to help you get there too.

Encouragingly,

Jessica