Hey Sis,
As I sit here trying to figure out what to write, I realize that there are so many things that I want to say to you. For as long as I can remember, you have not only been my go-to person, but my biggest role model. Even though I never wanted to admit it when I was younger, my goal in life has always been to grow up to be like you. I mean come on, who wouldn’t want to be as strong, successful, and magnificent as you are? You were always there to show me the ropes, and you’ve taught me some of the most important lessons in my life- like what not to say to mom when you’re in trouble, or how to not get caught in the first place. You always showed me the best music, the best classic movies, and basically the best things in life that I might not have known without your guidance.
From the beginning, you have been my biggest supporter and my number one fan, both of which I’m eternally grateful for. Even when I struggled to believe in myself, you always knew that I would make it through whatever it was I was dealing with. (You also never failed to tell me when I was being dramatic and put my a$$ in check). You have been so much more than a big sister to me, you are a second mother, and my very best friend. You have showed me what it means to truly be able to rely on someone, day or night. You were my shoulder to cry on when that boy broke my heart, the person who took me dress shopping for homecoming, who bought me ice cream, and who reminded me that life does go on and that it will get better. I want to thank you for all of the life lessons, the lunch dates, the hand-me downs, and for always helping to pave the way.
Please know that I admire your dedication to the big sister role, because even now that we’re both adults, you still find ways to show me that no matter how old I get, I will always be your little sister. To this day, you still call to see how my life is going and listen to my drama, you tell me how proud you are of me, and even when life gets hectic, you always seem to be able to make time for us to catch up. I know that in the past I have taken all that you do for granted, and for those times that I did, I want to apologize and tell you how much I really appreciate everything you do for me. Let’s face it, you are one of the reasons I’ve made it this far in life. You continue to shape me into a better person, and I honestly wouldn’t want to have it any other way. You inspire me every single day and you never fail to amaze me. You are so strong, generous, and beautiful, and you truly are the best big sister a girl could ask for. Remember -- I carry your heart with me.
Love,
B.
