Dear _______,
First of all, I hope you know how lucky you are. You are currently dating a very wonderful, sweet and all-around great guy.
A guy I also let get away.
That being said, I am very happy for you. I hope you know you are in for a lot of laughs and a lot of great times. I hope you know that you should always make time for him, no matter how busy or tired you think you might be. He deserves to be respected and have his company enjoyed. You are going to be very respected and feel very well-deserved. I hope you appreciate that. A guy like yours comes around once in a lifetime, so embrace and savor every last possible moment.
I should feel jealous or sad or angry that you are now in my shoes. I promise I'm not. As the ex-girlfriend, I am not entitled to these feelings. Sure, they're perfectly normal to have, but you are his focus now and dwelling on what once was is not going to make me feel any better about the situation.
I hope you do better than I did. I took what I had for granted and now know that I should have done everything differently. I hope that you can be everything I wanted and more for him. When I walked away from our relationship, I hoped that whoever he ended up with would be everything I wasn't and more. I hope you are that person. He deserves you so much. He deserves happiness and I hope every day that you are that for him. I wish you nothing but the best.
Sincerely,
The ex-girlfriend





















