9 Reasons Online Dating May Not Be For You | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
relationships

I'll Probably Have MAJOR Trust Issues And 8 Other Thoughts On Why Online Dating May Not Be For Me

Because I'm sure I have doubts almost everyone has when it comes to meeting people online.

Arielle Lewis
Oct 09, 2018
Towson University
125
https://pixabay.com/en/holding-hands-couple-1149411/
Pixabay

Online dating has been the new normal in 2018. There's not one person I know who has not tried using an online dating service. Tinder, Match.com, even Christian Mingle--all very popular dating sites.

However, I always get second thoughts when it comes to opening up someone. After all, do we really know who we're talking to? Here are some of the common concerns I have when it comes to online dating. And I am sure after reading this, you may think twice about making an account.

1. Catfishing is so deceiving.

I came across someone with a photo of Idris Elba named Tony. Maybe I'm crazy and he secretly has a twin brother.... And no I don't care what your situation is, I don't feel bad for those who pretend to be something they're not. You're a joke.

2. It's basically a home for perverts who are only trying to learn about your body parts rather than your personality.

Yes, creepy men who are 40 and over that refer to you as "sweet cheeks" just so they can smash. Please leave me alone before I tell Ms. Lorraine what you've been doing on Tinder, sir.

3. Easy access for undercover serial killers and predators who can't be within 50 feet of a playground.

I mean, do you hear those stories? And yeah, I know, it can happen in any situation, but online is way more common. If you meet someone in public, you're more likely to see the vibes they bring on your date.

4....Which causes you to develop MAJOR trust issues

Like the previous points, I don't want to end up talking to a 60-year-old psychotic catfish serial killer. Why can't I meet someone normal?

5. Are people actually serious about relationships in 2018?

I'm not looking for a husband, but I'm not trying to just have sex and go. I would like someone that I can establish something and grow with.

6. They may seem friendly and energetic online, but in real life they're awkward and make you uncomfortable.

Where did all of that energy go sir? Who is this?

7. Maybe you're terrible at keeping a conversation through text?

Especially if the conversation is dry. If you're one of those people who like to write words such as "lmao" or "lol," I don't think this is going to work out bud.

8. It's better to meet someone in person and get a REAL impression of them.

So I can see what they're really about, obviously! I can tell right away if someone is giving off weird vibes or not based on their presence. Yes, eventually the people who speak online will meet, but it would be really disappointing if the person you fell in love with online is socially awkward, strange, and doesn't look exactly who they look like in their profile picture...yeah, tough.

9. It's kind of hard to be yourself when you're presenting yourself online.

Let me explain that. For example, wearing makeup or wearing a nice dress in your profile picture in order to look presentable when you really wear sweatpants. I'm not in the mood to pretend to be someone who I am not, and you shouldn't either.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Student Life

7 Types Of Students You Will Meet In College

You wish you could be #5, but you know you're probably a #6.

University of Southern California
16149
cool group of lazy college students in class
StableDiffusion

There are thousands of universities around the world, and each school boasts its own traditions and slogans. Some schools pride themselves on sports, while others emphasize their research facilities. While there is a myriad of differences among each and every school, there will always these seven types of students in class.

Keep Reading...Show less
college students
Featured

15 Rhyme Without Reason Greek Life Function Ideas

When you have no ideas for what to wear to this date function

Appalachian State UniversityNational Writers Society
317361
A dog and a frog
Healthy Pets

I am going to a rhyme without reason date function and I have looked at so many different rhyming words and I figured there need to be a new list of words. At these functions, there are usually at least two rockers and boxers and an umpteenth amount of dogs and frogs. I have come up with a list of creative and unique ideas for these functions.

If you like what you see, get a shopping cart going with these costumes.

Keep Reading...Show less
Featured

Yoga love

A long over due thank you note to my greatest passion.

University of Kentucky
30151
A person in a yoga pose surrounded by a supportive community of fellow yogis with a look of peace and gratitude on their face the image should convey the sense of strength mindfulness and appreciation that the writer feels towards yoga
StableDiffusion

Dearest Yoga,

You deserve a great thank you.

Keep Reading...Show less
yoga
Arts Entertainment

Epic Creation Myths: Norse Origins Unveiled

What happened in the beginning, and how the heavens were set in motion.

George Mason University
10372
The Norse Creation Myth

Now, I have the everlasting joy of explaining the Norse creation myth. To be honest, it can be a bit kooky, so talking about it is always fun. The entire cosmos is included in this creation myth, not just the earth but the sun and the moon as well. This will be a short retelling, a summary of the creation myth, somewhat like I did with Hermod's ride to Hel.

Keep Reading...Show less
myths
Entertainment

25 Throwback Songs You Forgot About

But you know you still know every word.

Eastern Michigan University
146607
Old school ghetto blaster sat on the floor
8tracks radio

We all scroll through the radio stations in the car every once in a while, whether its because we lost signal to our favorite one or we are just bored with the same ol' songs every day. You know when you're going through and you hear a song where you're just like "I forgot this existed!" and before you know it, you're singing every word? Yeah, me too. Like, 95% of the time. If you're like me and LOVE some good throwback music, here's a list of songs from every genre that have gotten lost in time, but never truly forgotten.

Keep Reading...Show less
throwback songs

Trending Topics

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments