My parents were 22 years old when they welcomed their beautiful daughter (me) into the world. So yes, I have young parents and throughout my life I've experienced some of the same old things because of this circumstance. I think there are some misconceptions about what it's like having young parents, but also some truths.
The first thing that usually always happens, ever since high school and even now, is that people always ask my mother and I this question, "Are you guys sisters?" We both laugh and either of us responds, "No, she's my mom/daughter." Deep down, I you're flattered, mom, but you're justified in being so because you're one hot mama!
The second thing that usually happens is when your friends just met your dad and the second he steps away, one of your friends whispers, "Your dad is hot," and all your other friends nod in agreement. (Roll my eyes)
The third thing that happens is that the people you associate yourself with have this preconceived notion that your parents are "cool" simply because they're young. Let me tell you that that is not the case whatsoever. They are just as strict and difficult as any other pair of parents out there.
The fourth thing that happens is that you, over time, see how cool your parents truly are. It is because of their age that they are able to connect with you a little more. It is because of this connection that you can rely on them and trust them like one of your best friends.
The fifth thing that happens is that you and your mom share clothes. I wouldn't be able to tell you the amount of times I've gone into my mom's closet or vice versa because we have grown to have the same style.
The sixth thing that happens is that you get mistaken as your siblings parent. I can't tell you the amount of times I've been out with my little brother Jacob, who is 6 years old, and people have asked me, "Are you Jacob's mom?" HA. HA. NO. Why do people quickly assume mom? Why not sister, cousin, babysitter, aunt? Anything but mom, please.
All I know is that I wouldn't trade those suckers for anything in the world. They're my rock. And if you also have young parents, then tell them how much you appreciate them because they've made some big sacrifices for YOU.
