What is husband material?
Is he someone who has cheated on you?
Is he someone who you know you don't trust?
Is he someone that makes you cry more than smile?
If you've answered yes to pretty much any of those questions then he shouldn't be someone you "could see yourself marrying."
Throughout my years as a college student, I constantly see girls dating losers day after day who still think that they're going to be together for the rest of their lives.
Let's be real, if the man you claim you're going to marry started out as a drunken trip to pound town then he most likely isn't your Prince Charming. The sad thing about the women of our generation is that we make boys who aren't even remotely good enough for us good enough. We make excuses and exceptions, but at the end of the day, we're the ones hurting while they sit pretty knowing we're going to give in to the BS they're shooting our way.
OK, I've got a couple more questions for you. Would your future husband cuss at you or call you horrible names? Would he allow you to exile yourself from your friends while he's out partying with his? Again, if the "man" in your life fits the description of any of these questions then is he really someone you want to spend the rest of your life with?
Me personally I've never had a serious boyfriend so maybe I don't understand this crazy thing they call 'love,' but I do understand self-respect. It's not hard to get ladies and once you do you'll realize that the man of your dreams is still out there while you waste time with the boy of the moment






















