Growing up I had a lot of people who I called my "best friends" I thought the girls I shared my childhood memories with would be the girls by my side for the rest of my life. Throughout elementary school--and even in middle and high school--I started to realize how much my friend group fluctuated. Some friends remained in my life for years and years, while others weren't so constant.
At first I couldn't wrap my head around why certain people hadn't stayed in my life. Why was it so easy for some people to just up and walk out on our friendship? Was I doing something wrong? It wasn't until much later that I realized maybe this is how it's supposed to be. The friends we have as a kid are the friends who guide us through some of the hardest (and most awkward) moments of our lives. They are the friends who truly make us who we are.
People change; it's inevitable. The person you are today is nothing like the person you were 10 years ago. As you grow up, the way you live your life drastically changes. Because of this, friendships can dwindle, and that's okay. I am a firm believer in the fact that everything happens for a reason. People enter your life for a reason and if they decide to leave, there is a reason behind that as well.
It can be upsetting to realize that someone who once played such a large role in your life is not present anymore. At the same time, it's important to realize that those friends you once had left an impression--whether it be good or bad.
I am thankful for all the friends I've had throughout the years. They have taught me how to be strong, they have taught me how to laugh, they have taught me how to love and be loved, and they have taught me how to be a better person. People change and life moves on. Whatever the reason is that someone decided to walk out of your life, it is important to treasure everything they have taught you.
I will always remember the moments I shared with old friends and they are something I will treasure forever. Although we may not be the best of friends anymore, I am still thankful for the memories we made together. Having friends who leave a lasting impression on your life is something to be happy about.
So if you ever feel yourself getting caught in a friendship that is slowly fading, don't fuss--some things are meant to be.
