The Key To Staying Happy And Healthy

The Key To Staying Happy And Healthy

Make an addition to your list.

I was at work the other day at a children's center playing with the kids during their free time. I went over to a young boy and asked him what he was playing. We ended up sitting against the wall talking about how to be happy. The boy looked at me and responded with an adorable and wise answer to the question of what we need in life in order to stay happy and healthy.

He had a simple answer yet it was full of maturity, truth, and wisdom. "Eat well", he began. "Play well, sleep well, and exercise well!" He seemed to have it all covered. We sat there watching the kids play and right before I began to start another conversation with the boy he added a point to his list. "Oh! ...and play Candyland!!"

Cute right? The must have's in a kids life: food, play time, sleep, exercise, and Candyland.

I came home from work and shared this story with my friends and realized that his response was powerful. We need more than the essentials. We need to add something to our lists; we need to add something we care about, something that makes us smile, something that causes us to lay in bed at night and say 'wow, today was a good day'.

This doesn't have to be something big; it doesn't have to be big enough to result in a 'life event' post on Facebook or make it into our highlights of the year list. Its simplicity is what makes it powerful.

So what in your life is missing?... Your Canydland!

We all have our own 'Candyland'; our own little thing that we can add to our day that will make us happier. It's your job to figure out what that is for you. If there was an answer I could give you that could directly tell you what your life is missing I would share that with you. You, however, are too unique for my specific advice.

My advice can guide you but can not help you; you can only help yourself. Center yourself, thank yourself every day for even just getting out of bed in the morning. Find something little and simple that you can add to your life that makes you feel alive. Whether that's sitting down with your favorite tea, listening to your favorite band, or simply taking 30 seconds of silence to clear your mind, do something unique to you.

This advice may seem simple and worthless. I challenge you, however, to try it out this week. Do something your yourself every day this week and see how you feel at the end. I promise you that time taken for yourself is never wasted- time. You're worth it.

Find your Candyland. Once you do that, getting through your molasses swamps will become easier and you can begin to reach your candy castle.

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A poem that reminds you that you're not alone.


Some days,

You dread the sound of your alarm. You snooze and snooze and snooze and snooze.

When you finally pull yourself out of bed, pressed time forces you to throw on stained sweats

you find yourself chugging a cup of coffee.

You sit on the couch and contemplate calling out of work

You caught the stomach bug,

Or perhaps the flu,

Maybe you broke your collar bone

Or need a new phone

The endless list of excuses repeats through your head as you sit on the couch, wishing you were still in bed.

It takes every ounce

Every breath

Every fiber of your being to pull yourself off the couch

And into the car

And into the building where you work

Some days,

This is just how it goes

You are not alone.

Some days,

You awake to the beautiful sound of birds

Chirping outside your window

The sun sneaks its way into your room

A smile creeps across your face as you realize you are awake to see a new day

You make a good breakfast

You read a few pages of your favorite book

You get your mind ready for the things it will accomplish today

Before you know it you've worked an entire day

Your job is done

As you pull into your driveway,

you take a few breaths

Feeling grateful for another meaningful day.

Some days,

This is how it goes

You are not alone.

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Every day is a gift

The key to getting more good days

Is believing that everyday is one.

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