My Life Started When High School Ended

My Life Started When High School Ended

There's literally a whole new world out there.


I walked off of the field unsure that day. I was afraid of what the future would hold. Leaving behind all of my friends and teachers that had been with me since the beginning seemed like the most terrifying thing, but what I didn't know yet was that the life I was about to gain was worth the uncertainty.

Now don't get me wrong, my high school experience was great. I had great teachers and great friends and will cherish those people and memories forever, but what I didn't realize at the time was how limited I was. I had never branched out and made new friends or tried new things because I had never had to. I went to school with the same people my whole life, and though they were all amazing and taught me so much, you don't realize what you've been missing until you leave.

Immediately after I graduated I was immersed into a new world of work and college that was filled with new friends, new opportunities, and a chance to completely and ruthlessly edit my whole life. I realized that there was a whole other world out there that was filled with people who had entirely different beliefs and interests than me, and for the first time since I had started school when I was young, I had the chance to decide where I would belong amongst them.

I found that there were so many topics and things out there that interested me that I had never even heard of before. I was finally able to embrace all the things about myself that I had hidden because I thought they would make me look nerdy or uncool. I began keeping up with current events and things happening in politics and developed my own beliefs and ideas about everything happening around us.

Soon, I even started to notice myself grow more and more confident. Instead of feeling anxiety and fear of what others might think about me when I entered a room, I found myself not caring anymore. I had decided that if they didn't like me for who I was then they were not worth my time and I wouldn't try to be someone I am not just to please them.

In high school, there is such a stigma to belong in one specific group and everyone seems to put up a wall to hide who they really are. I fell victim to that, too. Once I left, though, I realized that those walls we build aren't doing us any favors and I didn't truly know who I was until I could be anyone I wanted to be. That's when I realized all the things I was missing.

Leaving high school might seem like the end of the most fun and stress-free times of your life, and in a way it is, but there is so much else out there that we don't see or realize until we're thrown out into it. That's when we find out who we are and what we are made of.

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To The Girl Who Isn't Graduating On Time, It Won't Feel Any Less Amazing When You Do

Graduating is something to be proud of no matter how long it takes you.


To the girl who isn't graduating college "on time,"

I promise, you will get there eventually, and you will walk across that graduation stage with the biggest smile on your face.

You may have a different journey than the people you grew up with, and that is OKAY. You may have some twists and turns along the way, a few too many major changes, a life change, you may have taken most of a semester off to try to figure your life out, and you're doing the best you can.

Your family and your friends don't think less of you or your accomplishments, they are proud of your determination to get your degree.

They are proud of the woman you are becoming. They don't think of you as a failure or as someone any less awesome than you are. You're getting your degree, you're making moves towards your dreams and the life that you have always wanted, so please stop beating yourself up while you see people graduating college on time and getting a job or buying a car.

Your time will come, you just keep doing what you need to do in order to get on that graduation stage.

Your path is set out for you, and you will get there with time but also with patience. The place you're at right now is where you are supposed to be. You are going to thrive and you are going to be the best version of you when you graduate and start looking for a company that you will be proud to work for. Don't look on social media and feel less than, because at least you're still working towards your degree that you are finally passionate about. You will be prepared. You will be ready once the time comes and you cross the stage, move away, and start your journey in whatever field you're going into.

Don't question yourself, and be confident in your abilities.

With love,

A girl who isn't graduating on time

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Goodbye School, Hello Real World

I'm ready for ya!


It's starting to hit me.

I've been in school, year after year, since kindergarten. Maybe even pre-school!

Now, I'm about to graduate with my bachelors in communication and I couldn't be more proud of myself. I'll say it. I often sugarcoat it or suppress it but d*mn it. I'm going to applaud myself. It was hard work. It took a lot of motivation, determination, (caffeine), and willpower to get to where I am today. I worked my ass off.

That being said, I can't help but think... What is life without due dates? What is life like without scrambling to turn in an assignment that's due at 11:59 PM? What is life like with actual sleep? Sleep? I don't know her.

Like I keep telling my boyfriend and my parents, I don't have it all figured out. At least not right now. But I will, and I'm in no rush to land my dream job right now. If anything, I want to take a year to myself. I want to travel. I want to sleep in if I d*mn well please! I want to read as many books as I want. I want to write till my fingers fall off (OK, maybe not that).

You get the jist.

I'm free. I can do and be whatever I want. And you know what? That's terrifying.

I'm lost. I've followed this structure for so long. Now what?

I don't have all the answers yet. But for now, at least right at this very moment, I'm so thankful to have been able to receive such an amazing education. And to be able to say I'm graduating with my bachelors in communication at 21 is an accomplishment in itself.

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