Dear younger me,

You may think your life sucks now, but trust me, shit gets worse. I am not here to tell you that everything works out and that everything is perfect in the future. I would be me lying straight through my teeth. Ill tell you the bad stuff first and then get to the good stuff...

You go through a terrible break up, it sucks, you cry a lot and you may think it is the end of the world but it's not, he ain't shit. You are forced to go to a college that you never wanted to go to in the first place. You miss your family in New York more than ever. You get into a car accident that totals your car and the guy who runs the light gets out of his car to yell at you, but you curse him out and gain some confidence.

You get a D in your math class in your first semester of college. No matter how much everyone tells you that you're a failure, you're not. You're going to gain weight. Last but not least, you're going to lose friends who you thought would be in your life for a long time, but they're not your real friends.

Now, onto the good stuff.

You meet an amazing guy, someone who treats you the way you've always wanted. When you get to Coastal, you become apart of Sigma Kappa and absolutely love all of the people you have connected with, you get an amazing big and an amazing twin. Also, you meet people outside of SK and become great friends with them.

You are starting to come out of your comfort zone and it feels really good. Those people you thought would be in your life forever? Yeah, they suck. You still miss New York but decide to stay at Coastal until you graduate school, then you'll go back after. With the accident and the guy yelling at you, you yell back and with that you gain some confidence.

The D is not the end of the world, you are not a failure and the next semester will be even better than the last. You got this.

Sincerely,

Older me