We all know that stressful, uneasy feeling when midterms roll around, even though it seems like classes started just yesterday. A sense of anxiety and distress spreads throughout campus, and the immense pressure can be seen on the faces of students wherever one looks. When it appears as if all your professors scheduled midterms and essays on the same day just in spite of you, the world can feel like it’s out to get you. Becoming tangled up in the complicated web of tests, papers, and homework during this time can seem natural and you may forget to see the bigger picture. Amidst midterm season, it’s important to take a step back and remember a few meaningful things.
First of all, you are going to be just fine. Despite the panic that has ensued among you and your friends during midterms, the frenzy will not last forever. It’s easy to get caught up in all the work and believe the drudgery will never end. But you must keep in mind that there is more to life than a couple of tests and papers. And, although it may seem like you are drowning in all the homework and studying you must complete, you should remind yourself that it is not the end of the world and everything is going to turn out perfectly fine.
Additionally, studying and working hard should be a priority but not the only priority. Yes, it’s important to strive for the best and achieve that A grade. But do not make studying and obtaining that high score your sole objective. Remember family, friends, sleep, and your extracurriculars are equally important. Take time for each of these things even when you feel completely swamped with work. Trust me, it will keep you sane during all the madness.
You’re grades do not define you. Receiving a poor score may leave you with a sinking feeling that you have failed yourself, especially when you work considerably hard to earn that grade. However, your value is not determined by this one insignificant number a professor handed back to you. Regardless of your low or failing grade, you are not a disappointment. Everyone struggles through tough classes, and you are not alone. However, you may end up achieving that A you wanted and you should be immensely proud. Nonetheless, whether you obtain an A or a failing grade, the score you receive is not the determining factor of your value.
Lastly, remember you have a support system of those who care about you and will help keep you levelheaded. Midterms may be tough, but with loved ones by your side you can get through it. They are there to listen to you vent when you don't receive the grade you believe you deserved. They will be there to stay up all night studying with you so you don't feel alone. And they exude pride when you finally achieve that grade you've been striving for.
So throughout the midterm process, remember to make time for yourself to relax and be with friends and family. Additionally, take care of yourself during this stressful time, because your mental and physical health are vastly important to your overall well-being. And remember, grades should be important but they do not characterize who you are or your value as a human.
