It is so easy to be hardened by experiences we would much rather forget. For better or worse, those experiences gave you the resilience to carry out a meaningful life. It’s much more difficult to conjure up strength when the outcome seems dim. It is in the times of trials and tribulations that the greatest lessons are learned, the greatest process is made, and the greatest wisdom is attained.

Along the way, I’ve picked up advice that, without fault, always holds true. If in case you ever need it, remind yourself how far you've come and all you've learned along the way. It is my hope that my insights spark a bright light in you. Your experiences are valuable and inspiring. Let your message to the world be the lessons you've fought to uncover. My message is simple; unapologetically and endlessly create yourself.

1. Free yourself from negative people.

2. Let go of those who are already gone.

3. Give people you don't know a fair chance.

4. Show everyone kindness and respect.

5. Be your imperfectly perfect self.

6. Forgive others and move on.

7. Always be loyal.

8. Keep promises and tell the truth.

9. Say what you mean and mean what you say.

10. Leave petty arguments alone.

11. Pay attention to your relationship with yourself.