The Importance Of Your High School Friends

The Importance Of Your High School Friends

I will always cherish you all.

Ah, high school. It seems so long ago, yet it was just two years ago. Personally, high school was some of the best years of my life (although people have very differing opinions). A lot changed during high school: boys, clothing style, hair, etc. But there's one thing that pretty much consistently stayed strong all four years: my friends. A lot changes during high school, and the friends in high school are the ones who kept you grounded and pushed you through the troubles of high school.

Now we're out of high school, going on to different colleges and different career choices. Some people stay close with their friends from high school, some don't. And when they don't, they blame it on distance. But let me tell you something: distance does not matter! From a girl who is in a long distance relationship and was the only one from her friend group to go to the University of Dayton, I can tell you how much distance doesn't matter. Yes, it makes it harder, but the amount of effort you put into being in contact with your friends and visiting them is up to you.

When I went off the college, I was scared but also ready to experience new things and make new friends. Something I've found very important is to love and enjoy all these new things happening in your life, but don't forget about your friends from high school. These are the people you are going to spend all of your breaks and summer with because you missed each other so much. These are the people that you are going to be able to revisit those old high school memories with. These are the people that you're going to be able to text or call when you need something because your people at college just don't get it.

This is a thank you to all the friends I'm still close with from high school and this is a wake up call for people who have lost touch. There are too many upsetting stories about people who loose touch with their high school friends. Don't be one of those. I don't care how many friends you've made in college. Never forget the ones who helped get you there.

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I can't thank you enough for countless days and nights at your house venting, and never being too busy when I need you. Thank you for the shopping days and always helping me find the best deals on the cutest clothes. For all the appointments I didn't want to go to by myself. Thank you for making two prom days and a graduation party days I could never forget. Thank you for being overprotective when it comes to the men in my life.

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It's starting to hit me.

I've been in school, year after year, since kindergarten. Maybe even pre-school!

Now, I'm about to graduate with my bachelors in communication and I couldn't be more proud of myself. I'll say it. I often sugarcoat it or suppress it but d*mn it. I'm going to applaud myself. It was hard work. It took a lot of motivation, determination, (caffeine), and willpower to get to where I am today. I worked my ass off.

That being said, I can't help but think... What is life without due dates? What is life like without scrambling to turn in an assignment that's due at 11:59 PM? What is life like with actual sleep? Sleep? I don't know her.

Like I keep telling my boyfriend and my parents, I don't have it all figured out. At least not right now. But I will, and I'm in no rush to land my dream job right now. If anything, I want to take a year to myself. I want to travel. I want to sleep in if I d*mn well please! I want to read as many books as I want. I want to write till my fingers fall off (OK, maybe not that).

You get the jist.

I'm free. I can do and be whatever I want. And you know what? That's terrifying.

I'm lost. I've followed this structure for so long. Now what?

I don't have all the answers yet. But for now, at least right at this very moment, I'm so thankful to have been able to receive such an amazing education. And to be able to say I'm graduating with my bachelors in communication at 21 is an accomplishment in itself.

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