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I Asked College Students How They 'Shoot Their Shot,' And Here Are The Responses That Won The Game

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I Asked College Students How They 'Shoot Their Shot,' And Here Are The Responses That Won The Game

Over quarantine, I noticed I've never actually 'shot my shot,' or had to do it first anyway. When I asked my girlfriends how they shoot their shots, they didn't have an answer either. So, I decided now was a good time to try… Except, I had no game. So I decided to send out a survey to college kids to find out how they shoot their shot, and I am definitely taking notes.

First, I asked where they would shoot their shot over social media, and Snapchat was leading with 41%. Instagram and Twitter came in close behind at 26% and 23%, respectively. So keep those social media accounts active!

Next, I asked how they would shoot their shot over social media, and the responses were hilarious, though some were pretty practical! I asked for the best lines and strategies, here are a few of my favorites.

1. Strategy: Discreetly make myself noticeable and enter their circle.

Sneaky and subtle, I like it.

2. Line: "Let me take you out, here is my number."

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Bold, I like it.

3. Strategy: I usually send girls their own recently posted picture. No comment or nothing just send their own picture back to them.

Strange, but intriguing.

4. Strategy: Commenting on everything they post.

I wish I had the confidence, but I respect it.

5. Line: "Hey, I like your face."

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Short, but to the point. I like it.

6. Strategy: Compliment and slide up.

Back to basics!

7. Strategy + Line (Bonus!): Straight up honesty, ‘Hey you seem fun/interesting and I want to get to know you better, want to meet up sometime and do that?’ (Used GroupMe this year, surprisingly worked!)

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Never have I ever used GroupMe to flirt, but I will now!

8. Line: "You got a boyfriend?" "No" "Do you want one?"

Just go for it!

9. Line (For the Aggies): Hopefully we can hold hands twice at A&M so it becomes a tradition.

Anything done at A&M twice becomes tradition, include handholding!

10. Strategy: Honestly, I'd like to see if they'd like to join me for dinner and then maybe go for a drive around town.

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Okay my little small town and county girl heart is screaming!!

11. Line: "Have I met you before, you seem familiar."

That will keep them wondering! Also, stream "Familiar" by Liam Payne & J-Balvin.

12. Strategy: I would honestly just ask them if they wanted to go out with me, no glitz or glamour.

Simple, maybe we overthink shooting our shot.

13. Line: "I'm not a photographer, but I can picture me and you together."

Cute, and sure to make them smile!

14. Strategy: I usually just compliment them or ask a specific question so it doesn’t look weird, then if a conversation starts up I start subtly flirting.

Subtle conversations are SO underrated, and a great way to start connecting!

15. Strategy:  I am upfront about it. “We should go on a date sometime.” If I get rejected, I get rejected.

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This is the boldness and confidence I need, go you.

16. Line: You down for tacos & margs?

I don't know who WOULDN'T BE?!

17. Strategy: Post a story and ask for recommendations about what to watch.

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Me too person, me too.

18. Strategy:  Honestly just try and start a normal convo with the person! How else will you get to know them?

You are 1000% correct.

19. Strategy: The best strategy I've found is being friendly and getting to know them a little bit, then asking them out within 2-3 days of the initial message.

Slow and steady wins the race!

20. Strategy: Be straightforward! Be bold (respectfully so) and humor is my way to go!

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Who doesn't love confidence and humor?

Stay tuned to my next article to see if I'm successful at using these lines and strategies!

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