To All The Meghan Markle’s Of The World, Your Worth Is Not Found In Your Earthly Father, But Your Heavenly Father

To All The Meghan Markle’s Of The World, Your Worth Is Not Found In Your Earthly Father, But Your Heavenly Father

The hole in your heart cannot be filled by man


Megan Markle, she is the princess that everyone wishes they could be. She is smart, successful, beautiful, and now she is legitimately a princess. It's the dream of every girl. There are still problems in her life. She has had her heart broken by the one man who was supposed to be there for her above any other man. In a heartbreaking letter to her father, she tells him of the pain he has caused her. She was brave to write the letter, but it also tells us that even a princess doesn't have a perfect life.

This Sunday I sat in church and listened to a guest speaker Pastor Steve Hage. He said a couple of things that made me think of how often we as women don't see our value. The one that hit home the most was:

A princess stays with a frog because she doesn't realize she is a princess. Steve Hage

It is not just Megan Markle who is a princess. It is all of us. We are princesses. It is not because of our human fathers, but our Heavenly Father.

It's hard to think of yourself as a life with such value. I know that I put my life in the hands of a frog, and the only thing I got out of it was living in a swamp. When you believe you are a princess, and I'm not talking about someone who is entitled and spoiled, I mean someone whose life has value, you will look at yourself differently. Your worth does not come from others. It does not come from your father, your boyfriend, your husband, friends, or your money in the bank.

Megan Markle is a perfect example of how as women we don't see our value and our worth unless it is confirmed by someone. A dad is a huge influence on our lives and they make a difference in how we see the rest of the world. It's true. It cannot be our excuse for living a life with no value. There has to be a day and a time when we raise our heads and our chins and listen to our Heavenly Father.

Since you are precious and honored in my sight and because I love you, I will give people in exchange for you, nations in exchange for your life. Isaiah 43:4

This verse gives me the chills because it speaks to so much more than our brains can fathom. We have a God who loves us so much that he is willing to exchange nations for us. He says I am precious and He Loves ME! How can anything be better than that?

Megan, your broken heart can be made whole. Your hurt can be restored. Don't give up on loving your father, but remember there is one who loves you so much more than he ever could. An unfailing love that only comes from our Father God. You are precious and honored in his sight. Be the princess that God has called you to be for such a time as this.

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I'm Not 'Spoiled,' I Just Won't Apologize For Having Great Parents

Having supportive parents is one of the best things that ever happened to me.


When I tell people that I am the baby of my family, there is always a follow-up question asking if I am spoiled. As I was a child, perhaps the situation was a little different because I did not receive material things but instead got my way or rarely was punished. I was most likely spoiled rotten in that sense, especially by my grandparents. Fast forward to the age of 19 and I can say that my parents give me everything that I need, not necessarily everything that I want.

But I still don't think I'm spoiled.

I might legally be an adult, but my parents still provide for me. I may live at school during the semester, but my parents don't charge me rent or utilities when I am at home. My mom still does my laundry. They pay my phone bill monthly. When my mom goes grocery shopping, she doesn't have me chip in to help. She will make sure the bathroom is stocked with tampons or shampoo so I don't have to worry about it. The both of them make sure I have the sufficient needs to not be hungry, cold, or without shelter.

They do all of these things because they want what is best for me.

While they pay my student loans, I give them money to cover it as well as a little extra each month for different expenses. If we go out to eat, I do offer to pay but often get shut down and end up leaving the tip instead. I help around the house and sometimes make trips to the store for food or cleaning supplies, not asking for money to be paid back.

I have a job that gives me decent hours, but my parents understand that money for a college kid is tough.

I pay for my own luxuries such as makeup, cute clothes, even to get my hair cut. Spoiled is typically defined as "damaged by having been given everything they want." Do I want another dog? Yes. Do I have one? No. Do I want a swimming pool in my backyard? Yes. Do I have one? Again, no. That is because both my mother and father still believe in working for what you want and even their daughter doesn't get a free pass unless it's her birthday or Christmas. Do I still have everything I could ever need? Yes.

My parents do the exact same thing for my brother and sister who are older than I am.

I know if I have a problem, whether it be financial or crucial, I can turn to them for help. A lot of people my age don't have parents like I do and I am extremely grateful for them and everything that they do. Thanks, Mom and Dad.

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Thank You, Mom And Dad For Giving Me Everything You Didn’t Have

Thank you for letting me be a kid, but now it's time for me to grow up


Growing up it was hard to see that money didn't just come out of thin air. I am very fortunate to have the parents that I do and because of that I never had to worry about the next meal on the table or not going to college.

However, different from most people I know, my family is different. Growing up my parents had nothing. And no they weren't homeless and their family was always there for them, but they did grow up relatively poor.

My mom always told me that she never wanted me to experience anything that she had to go through. She didn't want me to have 3 jobs and no social life. She didn't want me to have to wake up at five o'clock in the morning to deliver newspapers to the neighbors, she didn't want me to have that. She always used to say my job was to be a kid.

And although yes, I was very privileged growing up, and still am, I have to give all the credit to my parents for making me see where I came from. I know that my parents worked so hard to get to where they are today.

Both of my parents had the determination and motivation to get them to where they are today. And no they didn't go to some prestigious university, but they didn't need to. They were smart and people saw potential within them.

And I say thank you to you, mom and dad because you taught me how to be kind, thankful, and humble. Looking back I could see that I was spoiled and not thankful or understanding of it, but I know now.

Your little girl has now landed herself a job and leadership positions in two student organizations right here on campus. I'm learning who I am and what I want to be. Thank you for letting me be a kid, not having a worry in the world. Thank you, your little girl is finally growing up.

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