There comes a time in every girl’s life where you decide that maybe the single life isn’t for you. You’ve finally decided that all this dating actually isn’t as fun as it seems. You’ve been through all the types; the bad, the ugly, and the incredibly-awful-to-be-around guys you want to gouge your eyes out when they speak, but you still call them when let’s just say you’re not in your best state of mind. Your best friend that you used to look up to for how happy she was single, randomly gets in this relationship and you want to puke because of how happy they look on social media. This is when you start thinking you deserve the same thing, and, hey, maybe it’s not that hard to have your very own fairy tale.
You tend to compare yourself to Cinderella and try and derive a plan to put yourself in a situation where you can inconspicuously drop your glass slipper right in front of this guy you’ve been crushing on, and then have him look you in the eye and instantly fall in love with you. You want to have very high standards; you want to find your very own Prince Charming. But then you realize you’re actually not in a Disney movie and, sadly enough, you’re on a college campus, probably at a frat party, looking for that guy you matched with on Tinder the other day, hoping he is actually a 22-year-old model.
Every girl does deserve a Prince Charming, they deserve a very powerful person that will stand up for her and love her with every bit they have. I hate to say it, but that doesn’t usually happen on Tinder, or even when you’re looking at all. However, there will come a time where you will finally meet someone that will become your Prince Charming. I will tell you one thing: It will come out of nowhere. You will find the right person and you will know exactly why.
You will have a crazy feeling in your stomach every time they look at you. You may think you know what butterflies are now, but you won’t really experience that feeling until he tells you he loves you. And he won’t just tell you he loves you when he starts to get turned on like your crazy ex, but when you’re sitting with him doing absolutely nothing and he looks at you like you are the most beautiful girl in the world with your hair tied back and his baggy T-shirt on, and tells you the most three powerful words you’ve ever heard in your life.
He will become the most attractive man you have ever seen, no matter if he’s just waking up, or all dressed up to take you out just because he feels like you deserve it, he will look stunning. On the inside and out, and whenever you look at him, you will once again feel those crazy butterflies you didn’t actually think existed.
All you’re going to want to do is see him and “when do you want to hang out?” will become telling each other the only days you can’t. Even if you don’t think you’re someone that can become easily obsessed with someone, you will, and not seeing him for as short of a duration of two days will suck.
When you aren’t together you’re always thinking about him. You’ll be scrolling through your Twitter feed and find this funny quote or picture that reminds you of this one time he said something so dumb, but you thought it was the cutest thing ever.
You will want to be a part of every aspect of his life. You will find yourself not only wanting to spend time with him but with his family, and his friends, because you know how much that means to him. He’ll want to introduce you to his favorite things and show you everything he enjoys doing. Whether it’s a new type of music that you never thought you would ever get into, or this crazy “guy show” you will find yourself trying to find more about it because it’s something he loves.
He will become your No. 1 fan, whether you passed a huge test you’ve been preparing for months, or beat one of your camp kids in Ping-Pong, he’s on the other end of the phone right away telling you how proud he is of you.
And lastly, you won’t be able to get enough of one another. Whether the two of you are out partying hard every weekend, or lying in bed all day talking about what you think it would be like to be a cat, you’ll never get sick of one another. Maybe enough to even write an article about it.
