A Guide: How To Not Get The Girl
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A Guide: How To Not Get The Girl

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A Guide: How To Not Get The Girl
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Have you ever wondered what you could possibly be doing wrong when trying to get the girl you like? Well it's your lucky day, here is a list of things that will guarantee you to NOT get the girl. Just avoid doing any of these things on this list and best of luck bro.

1. By sending her 15 “just thinking about you” text messages in a row:

This is not cute, this is creepy. Repeat that in your head over and over again every-time you want to send her another “just thinking about you” text. If you two are not dating I would steer clear of this decision; especially if she hasn’t responded to any of them.

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2. By pretending she doesn’t even exist:

Yes, I understand we all play the “hard to get” game, but if you’re playing it so well that she doesn’t even feel like she exists, well she’s most likely going to move on to the next one. Girls enjoy being appreciated; try to remember that before walking right past her at the bar.

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3. By playing games:

The games of dating, one minute you care about her the next you’re in bed with someone new. Some girls are perfectly okay with this, but some are not. Discuss what you want with the girl you have started to see, and communicate what you don’t want too. Nobody has time for games.

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4. By hooking up with one of her friends:

You'd think this would be an obvious one, but apparently not. Hooking up with one of her friends will not only lower your chances of being with her, but it'll probably get you a brand new name, not one you would probably like to be spread around either. Bro, don't do this I promise you it is never going to be a good idea, I don't care what that Spice Girls song says.

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5. By never having a plan:

You are super interested in her and want to hangout with her but you never have any plans. Don't ask her what she wants to do, or if she wants to come over and hangout on your bed in your apartment. Make a plan, take her to dinner, a movie, ice-skating, out for some ice-cream etc. if you're broke offer to have a movie night and make some homemade pizza together. It's the thought that shows you care. Trust me on this one.

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6. By only talking about yourself:

Yes, you're awesome we get it. Make sure you take sometime to get to know her too though, learning about her will show you if you guys have compatability. Compatibility is important for starting a relationship and will help you see the type of person she really is beyond the surface.

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7. By not talking at all:

On the opposite spectrum of only talking about yourself, we don't want you to stay mute. Getting to know you is as equally as important to us as you getting to know us. Don't be afraid to share your thoughts with us, we actually really like it.

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8. By not giving her space:

This is about balance, girls like to be appreciated as mentioned before, but we also like our space. Yes, I know it sounds like we're super complex, but we need girl time. Enjoy sometime with your boys and let us sit back and relax with our friends sometimes too. Suffocating someone by always wanting to see them is actually a turn off.

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9. By bringing baggage:

This can go both ways for girls and guys, but boys if you freak-out at every guy we talk to we're going to quickly figure out that you brought baggage to this relationship. Trust is the cement of any relationship, and if you don't have any because we have guy friends that were there before you we're not going to want to stick around.

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10. By talking badly about someone she cares about:

I don't care how loudly she rants about her mother, brother, best-friend, sister, aunt, dog, uncle, cousin, etc. let her rant and don't say anything negative about that person back. That person is still her person and no matter how angry she is at them more than likely she will love them again in twenty minutes. Just imagine how mad you'd be if she said something terrible about someone you cared about? it won't slide. Just listen and tell her you understand, you're welcome.

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There are ten basic rules to follow, now go get her!

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