Enter freshman year of college me. I was in a completely new place, had nothing to do, and knew no one. I was lost, to say the least. I wasn't your stereotypical sorority girl, either. My hair wasn't bleached blonde, my skin wasn't totally clear, and I couldn't get my makeup to cooperate. However, I went out on a limb and went Greek. And it continues to prove to be the best decision I ever made.
Walking into the first house, I was incredibly nervous. I wasn't sure what to expect when I walked through the front doors. But at each house, it got easier and easier, and I could start to see myself fitting in with the different groups of girls. It's true when they say everyone finds a home in Greek life. Every house is so different, no matter who you are, what you like, or what you do, there's a place for you.
The best piece of advice I got while going through recruitment was "Pick the house that makes you feel the most comfortable. Pick the house you could see yourself crying in after your breakup or failing an exam." And so I did, fast forward to Bid Day. All the stress about sorority girls, what outfit to wear, and if I was cut out for this lifestyle disappeared. It had paid off.
And fast forward now. I've made some of my best friends, had the best experiences, and met some of the best people just because of my decision one year ago. This past year has taught me that there is no typical "sorority girl." I am one. Carrie Underwood is one. Condoleezza Rice is one. And you could be one. Nothing makes you a sorority girl except for the fact that you are in a sorority. Some sorority girls go out. Some sorority girls stay in. Some are blonde, some are not. There is no definition or criteria you must meet. Just sign up! Even if you aren't sure if you want to join a house, or are for certain you don't want to join a house, I suggest at least rushing. There's no harm in doing so, you get to meet a bunch of cool people, and you get some pretty awesome free stuff. And who knows, you might find yourself becoming a sorority girl, too.
Without Greek life, I would have had a lonely boring year. I wouldn't have made my best friends or had such great memories. I always had a sister to do things with, whether it was staying in or going out. And yes, I did cry in the middle of the sorority house, and yes, I felt comfortable because a few of my best friends were there with me, comforting me. Everyone should be as lucky as I was. So go Greek.
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