God knows who you need in your life.

It can be sad, confusing, and so very disappointing when someone is no longer a part of it.

Someone comes into our lives, and we fall vulnerable to them. We trust them and think they are here for the long run and then all of the sudden – they're gone.

The person you thought was your soul mate, your new best friend, or the perfect addition to your team, lets you down. They turn out to be a seasonal person, instead of a permanent one.

You may begin to question God. "Why did you take this person away from me?" Don't. Believe me – he has a plan.

You may also even begin to doubt yourself. Again, don't. Do not ask yourself, "What did I do wrong? Was I not enough?" Because guess what? Most likely, you didn't do anything wrong, and you are enough.

Friends, relationships and even family will desert you. Do not doubt God's plan for you, and do not doubt yourself because of this.

There is a reason they are being drawn away from you. They are negative energy or someone you've outgrown. God knows that the path they are headed on is not the one for you – and guess what? You are better off without them.

Or – and I'm sorry if I am the first person you're hearing this from, because it's hard to read and accept, but – not everyone who is there for you when you are down, wants to see you get back up! Sometimes, the people who helped us when we were feeling our lowest, wanna keep us there for their own agendas; whatever that may be.

Lastly, God removes distractions from our lives. He will draw away the people who have become more of a distraction than a blessing. This is God's way of keeping you focused.

Ask yourself this: Where does God fit in my life?Is He first, second, third, or a better question would be… Is He even a priority in your life at all?

Sometimes we place our relationship with God on the back burner without even realizing it. Removing those distractions from your life may be God's way of reminding you to not be so focused on earthly relationships, that you forget about the most important relationship of all – His.

While you may not understand why someone is no longer a part of your life now, I promise one day you will – and man, does it feel great when you do!

Do not be deceived: bad company ruins good morals. 1 Corinthians 15:33