Often times we find ourselves wading through life and wondering about the decision we will make about what is coming for us. That's scary to be sitting and thinking about where you're going next with your life, the next step that takes you to greener pastures. That is a defining moment in who you are as a person.

Change is the most frightening element of life, even more frightening than spiders. Spiders terrify me to the point of screeching. Maybe we should change the fact that spiders exist. Food for thought.

However, there are certain points in our lives where we don't know where to go and changes are upon us.

We are changing all the time, we don't see it, but we really do in a sense. We are afraid to admit it. I guess its not as scary when we don't see it, but the changing of the tides will come at us in a blink of an eye and we will have to roll with the punches.

The most daunting part of change is we never know when it's going to happen. EVER. We suspect that change will come at some points, but we never know when. It helps us grow up.

Never changing anything would get boring for me. Staying in the same place, doing the same things everyday and never moving around would make my life very mundane. I would not feel a purpose. Change is scary, but it is so good for the soul.

People stay in places too long sometimes. There comes a point where you are in a place and you've done your duties and moving on is merely what is best. Honestly, you may not even know what you want to do when you leave somewhere and make an alteration, but that is completely fine.

If you feel like you need to be somewhere, a place where you are not, then go there. Don't sit around and wait for a change, make the change yourself.

Yes, change can be absolutely nerve-wracking. But, if one doesn't make a change every once in awhile, one will get stuck. It's unhealthy to sit around and do the same thing over and over again. Life should be lived with spontaneity and risks. The willingness to go deep into the unknown and not know what the hell you're doing while doing it is the most lively feeling. There's no better time to be alive when you're making a move, when you're inspired to do something and you have this burning desire to simply do it.

Change is inevitable. Change is scary, but the good change is what keeps us going.