I am guessing you have probably heard the "You are perfect and everything I have been looking for", and then a week later they are gone.
Some nights your eyes close softly, with a smile on your face, because he seems like he is going to stay. Until it happens again.
It is like a switch
It is crazy how everything can be going so great, and then the next moment you do not hear from them again. No words explaining why, no apologies, literally nothing.
It is habit to not care
You've begun to predict the future. You get your hopes up, and then it happens again. It is like a repetitive cycle that you cannot seem to escape from.
You still wonder what you did wrong
Your parents or friends usually say, "Do not worry, it is not you, it is him" but you question that. After it has happened almost every time you talk to a guy, you put it more on yourself each time.
The lengthy situations are the worst
You have gotten used to about the two and a half week mark until they fall off the earth, but the longer ones hurt much worse. Talking to someone for, three or more months is a big chunk of your time. Not saying it is been wasted but it sure was not a fun ending.
Do not say it if you do not mean it
I think the worst part is when they act like they are catching feelings as fast as you are. If they are not acting, then why a few days later, do their minds change so quickly?
I will not change for anyone
You feel like maybe you need to dress differently or change the way you look just to see if it makes them stay. DO NOT. This ends up being harder on yourself. You do not need to change for anyone, just watch them walk too.
If this is you, again I am sorry. I hope one-day things will change and this will not be such a fad.
You are worth it.
Do not think you are not.
He will come one of these days, and he will not even dream of leaving.
