If there is one thing I absolutely cannot stand, it's being ignored.

Boys, well they seem to love to do just that. I mean I know I'm not alone in this struggle, so many of my friends will text me saying, "well I just got left on open...again". To be completely honest it's really their loss, but at the same time it really sucks.

So this is to all my ladies who slightly cringe when they read "Read at 11:23 PM", here are just a few shared thoughts.

1. How Dare He?

Like who does he think he is ignoring me. I’m quite the catch.

2. Wow. Just perfect.

Just the confidence boost I needed. I mean I already got left on open my own mom, so this is really just fine.

3. Whatever, this is totally his loss.

He’ll miss me. I mean he won’t find another girl like me, soooo

4. Not again.

This is only the 3^rd time this week, but its totally okay. I'll find someone else who will probably do the same thing, but it's totally okay.

5. Okay, but like why can't someone besides my mother love me?

She has to say I’m pretty, and I’m trying to get someone who wants to say it. (seriously though, mom I love you)

6. Really though like did I say something I shouldn’t have?

I mean I thought things were going fine. Maybe I didn’t compliment him enough, or I talked about myself too much. Maybe he misunderstood that last text.

7. Maybe he is busy.

I mean he has school with tests and papers, maybe he just is being a studious boy. (actually not sure these exists?? asking for a friend?)

8. He is probably talking to like 5 other girls anyways.

Or maybe he is a player and I’m just another girl on the list. Who are they? Let me go stalk his Instagram followers.

9. Is it because I’m not pretty enough, like what the heck??

I’m definitely a solid 6 for looks, like add 4 for humor and you’ve got a 10. Not sure what the problem is.

10. Screw him

Who needs boys anyways? There are literally millions of other guys who I’m sure would love to love me.

11. I wonder if he just forgot to respond??

Maybe he opened it and got distracted! I literally do this all the time, like anything could’ve happened, right?

12. Maybe I should text him again.

I’ll just add on really quick to what I said before, and it’ll remind him. Then he’ll text me back and everything will be good.

13. It's fine. It's really fine. Over it.

Or not.