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What Having A Gay Best Friend Is Really Like

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What Having A Gay Best Friend Is Really Like
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You meet a lot of people throughout your life, each and every one of them different. Some people are in your life for a long time, others of them just stay for a short time. You always know who the special ones are, and you know they'll be with you forever. I met my best friend in middle school. She's always been there for me through everything I've gone through. We're not your typical best friends. We go to different colleges, and we don't talk 24/7, but that's not what matters. What matters in a friendship is being there for each other no matter what and for accepting them for who they are. A true friend accepts you no matter what may happen in your life. I knew our friendship was real when my best friend came out to me that she was gay. I didn't judge, I didn't look at her weird, and she wasn't uncomfortable telling me. Honestly, her being gay probably made our friendship even stronger. A few things definitely change when you have a lesbian for a best friend, but all in all, it makes you a better person.


1. People constantly ask you if your best friend is gay. Yes, she is, and yes, we do still have sleepovers, and no, it is not weird changing clothes in front of her.


2. You're always third-wheeling with her and her girlfriend. People always ask you if it's awkward, but it never is. If she's good enough to be dating my best friend, she's good enough to be one of my best friends.


3. You're constantly planning out her wedding for her, and you know you'll be right beside her no matter who she decides to marry.


4. You get really defensive when people talk badly about gay marriage. Love is love people, so accept it.


5. Going to gay pride parades with her to support, but you end up being the only one wearing rainbow colors. Nothing is better than supporting your best friend.


6. She always tells you when her gaydar is going off, and you really don't understand how she can tell so well.


7. You always ask her questions about how stuff works in the relationship. "If the two of you get married and want kids, are you each gonna have one kid? Are you going to be pregnant at the same time? Can my husband be your sperm donor so the kid can be mine too?"


8. You get pissed when people say she's just going through a phase and will end up marrying a man. No she won't, because two wedding dresses are better than one.


9. Going out to clubs and bars with her is great because she'll look for hot guys for you, but you know she won't try to take them for herself.


10. You celebrated when gay marriage became legal, and even cried a little bit because you were so happy.


11. You know that she the won't ever judge you for anything you do, because you never judged her.


12. Finally, you know she'll always be your best friend.

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