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Founders Of Color: Rec Room's Dre Taylor On What Blackness Can Look Like And Not Working For Free
"It mattered to me that when we were depicting racial diversity for Rec Room, we showed the broad spectrum of what Blackness can look like."
9h
Rec Room
The world of sustainable fashion is inundated with marketing gimmicks, false advertising, and large corporations cutting corners — Rec Room is the pure antithesis of that.
<p>Built upon the principle of "the spot at your friend's houses where all the fun happened," <a href="https://rec-room.com/" target="_blank">Rec Room</a> is a brand all about lighthearted fun and comfort rooted in profoundly admirable morals and values that, in the fashion world, are extremely rare to find.</p><p>At <a href="https://rec-room.com/" target="_blank">Rec Room</a>, it's all about feeling comfortable and confident in order to put your best foot forward. I was already convinced I loved the Italian-milled, California-made, and ethically manufactured fabric before putting it on my body. The company isn't just ethical in their practices — they also do a lot of good by supporting conservation and waste reduction initiatives.</p><p>As I eagerly unwrapped the package their PR team was kind enough to send me, I felt the silk-like fabric of their red open-back dress in my hands and was actually surprised. As someone with an interest in sustainability whose job it is to write about fashion, I thought I had tried and felt every ethically-manufactured fabric out there — and, to be honest, they kind of all feel the same. <a href="https://rec-room.com/" target="_blank">Rec Room</a> is totally different. </p><p><div id="div-gpt-2646972086-content-ad" class="ad"><script>
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</div></p><p>The fabric feels like one of the silk sarees I wear to Indian events, but it stretches like the squat-proof leggings I work out in. </p><p>Putting it on was the closest I could get to being naked in public, and I couldn't have been happier to have an outfit to add to my roster of cute outfits to pull together when I want to look more put together than I feel.</p><p><a href="https://rec-room.com/" target="_blank">Rec Room</a> is the brainchild of co-founders Dre Taylor Lindsay and Val Young — the two met and bonded over a desire for an effortlessly chic wardrobe in business school. <a href="https://rec-room.com/" target="_blank">Rec Room</a> wasn't just their answer to the story, it's an embodiment of their partnership as two strong businesswomen — something you can see the second you visit their site or join their <a href="https://www.instagram.com/r.e.c.r.o.o.m/" target="_blank">Instagram community</a>.</p><h2>What is the story you hope to tell with Rec Room?</h2><p><a href="https://rec-room.com/" target="_blank">Rec Room</a> was created out of my friendship with my cofounder, Val. That's the bedrock. We were hanging out so often, and always in leggings, and we realized women didn't have dedicated comfy hangout clothes; activewear was a poor stand-in — after all, it was designed for the gym! </p><p>We started Rec Room with the intention to capture the essence of how you feel when you're your most comfortable, which for us, was around friends. That attitude also influenced why we named our brand Rec Room. Growing up, the rec room in your friend's basement or at the community center was the place where the fun stuff happened.</p><p><strong>It's where you felt most like yourself. When our customers wear our pieces, we hope it captures a little bit of that feeling. </strong></p><p>Our brand also reflects the fact that our friendship is one between a white woman and a Black woman. Not only does that emphasis on diversity shine through in the brand, but we also started a homegrown initiative (inspired by 1% for the Planet, which we're also a part of) called <a href="https://rec-room.com/blog/racial-justice-initiative" target="_blank">1% for Racial Justice</a>. </p><p>We've committed 1 percent of our ongoing gross sales to organizations working to battle systemic racism in the U.S. The first beneficiaries are the <a href="https://thelovelandfoundation.org/" target="_blank">Loveland Project</a> and the <a href="https://eji.org/" target="_blank">Equal Justice Initiative</a>.</p><h2>What has been your biggest challenge and highlight as an entrepreneur?</h2><p>Challenge: I don't come from a traditional fashion background, and neither does Val. </p><p><strong>We built our brand because we saw a need and because we lived the pain point ourselves. </strong></p><p>But not having connections in the industry meant we had to leverage the skills we could bring (especially the business side — we met in business school) to find the right partners in supply chain, manufacturing, branding, and more. </p><p><strong>It's an ongoing journey to identify the talent and team that makes Rec Room the great place it is.</strong></p><p>Highlight: Prior to Rec Room, I came from a sales background at Google. Parts of that experience have always stuck with me, so nothing lights me up more than hearing positive customer feedback. </p><p>It's like a sugar high! One of my favorite things a customer told us was that when she was packing for a two-week trip she essentially only packed Rec Room and underwear.</p><h2>How much does coming from a marginalized community play into the way you do business?</h2><p>Two things come to mind here. </p><p>First, I think so many apparel brands get it wrong when depicting racial diversity in their campaigns. </p><p><strong>There's a standard, one kind of "look" that the Black model is supposed to check a box for. </strong></p><p>I come from a Black family where everyone is a different shade and a different kind of hair, etc. It mattered to me that when we were depicting racial diversity for Rec Room, we showed the broad spectrum of what Blackness can look like. </p><p>That's what makes our vision of a diverse Rec Room both authentic and reflective of the community and audience we serve. </p><p><strong>Our team is equally diverse — over half of the team identifies as a person of color and our lead designer is also Black, which is unique among apparel brands. </strong></p><p>Second, I am intensely aware of the fact that rest is a real privilege and one that underserved and underrepresented diverse communities don't often get to participate in. </p><p>Our brand was founded with the mission to help women find comfort, and we feel strongly about helping that mission and our products reach these communities that otherwise don't get the opportunity to participate in the whitewashed culture around wellness. </p><h2>How important are social media and community building within your business?<br></h2><p>Unfortunately, our most meaningful community-building efforts happened in person and offline, prior to COVID (with shared workout classes, coffee shop pop-ups, and more). </p><p><strong>Now that we're all spending a greater amount of time online, we're shifting our audience engagement to social media. </strong></p><p>We've done several Instagram live interviews with influential women like Hitha Palepu and classes with 305 fitness. We have also grown an extensive network of women who hustle and act as brand ambassadors for us with their digital communities.</p><h2>What advice would you give the upcoming generation of entrepreneurs coming from marginalized communities?</h2><p>Coming out of Stanford for both undergrad and business school, I saw the oft-cited common problem in Silicon Valley: entrepreneurs of color are often over-mentored and underfunded. </p><p><strong>Find just a few key mentors you want in your corner, but then insist on "hiring and wiring" — don't give them free ideas, don't give them free work — make them hire you for it. </strong></p><p>Don't let them put you through an incubator for founders without the expectation that they'll wire you the capital as part of your fundraising. Insisting that they understand your worth will lead to more opportunity.</p><h2>What can we expect from the future of Rec Room?</h2><p>This fall, we've got brand new styles launching that extend beyond our core offering of dresses. We're going to release pants, separates and co-ords, a jumpsuit, and layering pieces so that Rec Room can take you all day, season to season. </p><p>We're also in the process of developing more inclusive sizing so that plus-size women will find even greater comfort wearing our pieces. </p><p class="shortcode-media shortcode-media-rebelmouse-image">
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</p><h3>Rapid Fire</h3><p><strong>What are your favorite accounts to follow on social media?<br></strong></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/kidcadaver/" target="_blank">Olalekan Jeyifous @kidcadaver</a> is an artist and designer who reimagines cities through an urban planning lens with what he calls an "Afro/Eco/Agro Futurist vision." It's a fascinating look at what our cities could look like with a lot of imagination and a focus on serving communities in need.<br></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/takingcarababies/" target="_blank">@takingcarababies</a> has become a favorite ever since I had my daughter almost 7 months ago - we all could use some sleep tips!</p><p><strong>Tell us a book you'd recommend.<br></strong></p><p>I can't pick just one!</p><p>"<a href="https://amzn.to/3fVgIvs" target="_blank">If You Leave Me</a>" by my friend Crystal Hana Kim is a beautiful historical fiction novel set in the Korean war</p><p>"<a href="https://amzn.to/3fSPUMj" target="_blank">Figuring</a>" by Maria Popova was a delight to read because of its thought-provoking analysis of "meaning making" and historical parallels in the lives of women scientists through the ages</p><p>"<a href="https://amzn.to/2PQe2oi" target="_blank">Clean Your Room</a>" Harvey Moon by Pat Cummings was my favorite children's book growing up and is a new favorite in my house again with my daughter — it features a Black boy as the primary character doing something all kids hate to do... cleaning his room. </p><p><strong>What charities do you support? </strong></p><p>I've supported <a href="https://homeboyindustries.org/" target="_blank">Homeboy Industries</a> here in LA for over a decade — it works with former gang members and formerly incarcerated individuals to provide much-needed jobs and community services. Plus, the goodies that come out of the Homegirl Bakery are delicious.</p><p><span></span><a href="https://greendot.org/" target="_blank">Green Dot Schools</a> is a Los Angeles charter network that is near and dear to my heart — two of its schools are named after relatives of mine who were active in education.<br></p><p>I also actively support two nonprofits doing phenomenal work in the arts especially for communities of color: <a href="https://2st.com/" target="_blank">Second Stage Theater</a> and <a href="https://www.alvinailey.org/" target="_blank">Alvin Ailey American Dance Theater</a> in New York.</p><p><strong>What is the item in your closet you wear the most? </strong></p><p>My <a href="https://rec-room.com/styles/slip" target="_blank">Rec Room slip dress</a> (I can layer it in so many different ways) and my Keds (the cool mom shoe!)</p><p><strong>What is on your nightstand?</strong></p><p><strong></strong>I have scraps of curtain fabric and tile samples that I'm deciding among scattered all over my nightstand. We're building a new house right now, and usually the only time I have to make design decisions is right before bed).</p><p><span></span>I also can't live without chapstick and hand cream within reach at all times, so they feature prominently on my bedside table.</p><p class="shortcode-media shortcode-media-rebelmouse-image">
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Move Over, Starbucks — Dunkin' Just Dropped Pumpkin Spice Lattes And I've Already FALLen For Them
I'll be at Dunkin' next week if you need me.
11h
Dunkin' just announced that they'll be releasing their fall menu earlier than ever — set to debut on August 19 — and that it'll include new menu options this season, including a new signature pumpkin spice latte. Let me just say, Starbucks has some fall-menu competition now.
<p>I've been on Team Starbucks for as long as I can remember. </p><p><strong>Just recently though, my family started going to Dunkin' more and more, and it's honestly been growing on me a lot. </strong></p><p>This new announcement just adds to my list of excitement over the brand.</p><p>Dunkin' described their upgraded pumpkin spice latte on their website, <a href="https://news.dunkindonuts.com/news/answering-the-call-for-fall-dunkins-signature-pumpkin-spice-latte-and-fall-menu-arrive-august-19" target="_blank">saying</a>, "Elevating PSL to another level of enjoyment, the Signature Pumpkin Spice Latte – available hot or iced – combines rich, smooth espresso with pumpkin and vanilla flavors, topped with whipped cream, a caramel drizzle, and cinnamon sugar topping."</p><p>And let me just say, that sounds amazing. Since I began college a couple of years ago, I've become an avid coffee fan — I even work as a barista on campus — and this combination of flavors sounds incredible. </p><p><strong>I honestly cannot wait to try it!</strong></p><p>In addition to the PSL, Dunkin' is also releasing other new options, like a chai latte, stuffed mini bagels, steak and cheese rollups, and maple sugar seasoned snackin' bacon. </p><p><div id="div-gpt-2646970975-content-ad" class="ad"><script>
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</div></p><p>These are all in addition to the recurring fall menu options, such as the pumpkin flavoring that can be added to any coffee drink, apple cider donuts and munchkins, pumpkin donuts and munchkins, and the maple sugar bacon breakfast sandwich.</p><p><strong>These fall treats are exactly what we need now. I'm already fantasizing about pairing a pumpkin spice latte with an apple cider donut!</strong></p><p>This fall might be pretty crazy, and things may not look anything like how they used to, but at least Dunkin' is giving us some sweet treats to look forward to this season.</p>
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CBD Lip Balm Is The Calming Presence You Need In Your Life, Trust Me
I tried lip balm, sleep gummies, and an oil dropper from CBDistillery. Here's the final verdict.
14h
@lilyjmoe
CBD has been on making waves within the wellness space for the last few years. Generally related to the treatment of anxiety, insomnia, and chronic pain, it's growing easier to find small CBD companies who are making products specifically designed to fit your needs. As FDA rules for CBD production can be a little hazy, it's true that not all CBD products are created equally. That's why it's important to look into the manufacturing of whatever you're deciding to try, especially if you're new to taking CBD.
As someone who has tried a variety of CBD products — some victories, some failures — I was thrilled when CBDistillery sent me a package of their favorites. They included a Broad Spectrum CBD Oil Tincture, their Nighttime Gummies, and a CBD Lip Balm.
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</div></p><h2>First impression <br></h2><p>The first thing I noticed about these products was how clearly marked the active ingredients were. Many CBD products have smaller percentages of THC (the active ingredient in marijuana that gives you that "high" feeling), but CBDistillery's PM gummies products are marked at 0 percent THC. The tincture (oil dropper) has a disclaimer of "may contain trace amounts of <0.05% THC," and the lip balm does not mention THC anywhere on the label. </p><p>I was most excited about the nighttime gummies and the lip balm — I've taken CBD gummies for my insomnia previously and was hoping for a sure success. The lip balm intrigued me. It has a smaller dose than either of the other products, but the thought of smaller quantities more often throughout the day appealed to me. Each of these products contains a different dose of CBD: the nighttime gummies have 30mg per serving, the dropper has 17mg per serving, and the lip balm contains 25mg total for the tube. <br></p><h2>The verdict </h2><p>The nighttime gummies, while probably effective for those with mild restlessness, did not help me sleep through the night. Instead, I was restless, tossing and turning and waking up groggy. Previous experience has taught me that my tolerance to sleep assistance is on the high end of the spectrum, so the fact that these are not a one-size-fits-all didn't surprise me. </p><p>The oil dropper met my expectations. It tasted herby, sharpened my focus, and felt like a big, deep breath. It didn't change my life, but it did greatly improve it. I will definitely continue using it, especially on days I feel extra anxious or fidgety. I noticed how one dose in the morning set the tone for my day, and it was incredibly helpful, especially if I was busy and had a lot to accomplish. </p><p>The best product of this little gift set? The lip balm. I didn't know I needed my CBD in lip balm form, but here we are! Being able to apply tiny doses, topically not only gave me small, routine focus points throughout the day, but it did make a difference in how calm I felt, without any sudden shifts or grogginess. Everyone should have a CBD lip balm — everyone! </p><h2>What you should buy</h2><p>If you're new to CBD, this is a great starter combination for you. You'll be able to test out what you need, what you like, and how your body reacts to different products (as well as the mediums you are using to put CBD into your body). If you're just choosing one thing? The lip balm, obviously. Take care of your chapped lips and your restless mind with one little product! </p><p><em><em>Editor's note: The views expressed in this article are not intended to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment.</em> If you are considering CBD for the first time and take medication, consult your doctor.</em></p><div class="post-pager js-listicle-pager" data-listicle-style="" data-async_load_parameters="platform=desktop&display_ads=1&settings=%7B%22enter_url%22%3A+null%2C+%22no_post_section%22%3A+null%2C+%22ads_breaks%22%3A+null%2C+%22prevent_last_break_repetition%22%3A+false%2C+%22use_numeration%22%3A+false%2C+%22show_columns_on_mobile%22%3A+null%2C+%22ads_order%22%3A+%5B3%2C+3%2C+3%2C+3%2C+3%5D%2C+%22turn_into_posts%22%3A+null%2C+%22list_breaks%22%3A+null%2C+%22reorder_voting%22%3A+null%2C+%22cooldown_in_seconds%22%3A+null%2C+%22pagination_order%22%3A+null%2C+%22source%22%3A+%22engine_settings%22%2C+%22next_post_url%22%3A+null%2C+%22up_down_voting%22%3A+false%2C+%22allow_url_change%22%3A+null%2C+%22numeration_sort%22%3A+-1%2C+%22allow_url_update%22%3A+null%2C+%22use_pagination%22%3A+false%2C+%22body_text_above%22%3A+false%2C+%22use_ads%22%3A+false%2C+%22items_as_posts%22%3A+false%2C+%22multiple_answers%22%3A+null%2C+%22no_redirect%22%3A+null%2C+%22is_guest_voting_allowed%22%3A+null%2C+%22layout_type%22%3A+null%2C+%22voting_extra_fields%22%3A+null%7D">
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I Went To Disney For The First Time Since COVID-19 And It's Officially The Cleanest Place On Earth
I stopped focusing on the pandemic simply because, for the first time in months, I felt safe.
13 August
After a few months of self-quarantining, becoming suspicious of every cough, and blowing through masks like a medical school student, restrictions due to the pandemic are easing up a bit and businesses are warily reopening. While these public spaces may look the same on the outside, the way they function and operate is vastly different than a few months ago.
<p>During the pandemic, I moved back home to Orlando, Florida. As an annual pass-holder, I was fairly conflicted — part of me was so eager to get back to the parks for some good, old-fashioned fun, but another part of me knew the threat of the virus had not disappeared. So, when Walt Disney World reopened their parks to the public, I waited a few weeks. </p><p><strong>What were their new safety policies? How has the experience changed? Would they have an outbreak and have to close again?</strong> </p><p>I watched social media and news reports pretty closely, and all of the parks got amazing feedback from visitors. So I went. </p><p>Epcot, despite being dubbed "the elderly park," is towards the top of my ranking. The annual Food & Wine Festival had just started so that was the icing on the Mickey-Mouse-shaped cake. The bite-sized food was absolutely incredible, ranging from unique, specialty cuisine to Americanized versions of different cultural staples. There was a wide variety of vegan and vegetarian options throughout the World Showcase, and the beverage selection was diverse enough to satisfy young kids and of-age adults alike. </p><p><div id="div-gpt-2646965822-content-ad" class="ad"><script>
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</div></p><h4>As far as the cleanliness goes, I don't think I've seen a business have so many precautions in place without it dampening the experience. </h4><p>Walt Disney World's theme parks have drastically reduced their daily capacity and now require online reservations, so social distancing guidelines were very easy to follow simply because of the reduced number of patrons. This had an unexpected benefit — while fewer people meant a lesser chance of exposure to the virus, it also meant virtually no lines for food and rides. </p><p>Every visitor had their temperature checked upon arrival and was required to wear a mask throughout the duration of their stay, with the only exception being while eating or drinking (while stationary). There were placeholders on the ground designating six feet of distance in every queue line and, in some cases, plastic separators were also utilized. Hand sanitizer dispensers were everywhere and there were portable handwashing stations spread throughout the park to reduce crowding in bathrooms and promote more frequent washing. Trash cans were often changed, soap and sanitizer dispensers were always full, and castmembers were verbally reminding patrons to obey the new health and safety guidelines. </p><p>On the rides, attendants spaced out visitors the best they could. In most cases, families had entire rows or boats to themselves, depending on the attraction type. The rides were sanitized every few uses by cast members, who were extremely quick but efficient. Restaurants did the same thing with their seating and sanitizing. The store sizes were reduced and offered a smaller selection of merchandise, but there was still so much available to buy it was hardly an inconvenience.</p><p>Throughout the entire day at Epcot, I almost forgot the pandemic existed. Not in a literal sense — there were reminders of "the new normal" everywhere I turned. But I stopped focusing on the pandemic simply because, for the first time in months, I felt safe. The number of precautions in place to keep everyone healthy was unlike anything I've seen so far in a public space, and allowed guests to just focus on having fun with their friends and families. </p><p>Walt Disney World's theme parks are setting a new standard of cleanliness and safety during this time of uncertainty, and reminding people that there's a great big beautiful tomorrow waiting — that "tomorrow" is probably somewhere in 2021, but you get the idea. </p>
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5 At-Home Therapy Tips You Need, No Matter What Your Therapy Routine Is
Whether you're in a Zoom session or live-chatting, make sure your home therapy space is good to go.
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No matter what stigmas you held about therapy before this year, I'm sure 2020 has affirmed that we could ALL use a nice long therapy session. Between wildfires that took over an entire continent, a global health crisis, and what's sure to be one giant circus of an election in the United States, we need help and we need it now.
The fact of the matter is, therapy has been a helpful, valid resource long before the world decided to become one giant dumpster fire. Having a safe space to discuss what's going on in your life, worries you have, and struggles you're facing has become a very normal thing for individuals' mental health.
<p>As 2020 has taken a lot of aspects of our routines and thrown them out the window, it has added other features that we may not have thought of before. Sure, maybe you're not going into a therapist's office for a session anymore. But maybe you found <a href="https://www.thegoodtrade.com/features/online-therapy" target="_blank">an online option</a> that is a fantastic stand-in! Or maybe you're entirely new to the therapy world and looking to jump in the deep end of your mental wellbeing. </p><p>No matter where you are in your journey with therapy, there are a few things you can add to your home routine that may help make your experience a little more comfortable. </p><p><div class="powrload_9edb92"></div>
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<p>Whether you decide to write <a href="https://juliacameronlive.com/basic-tools/morning-pages/" target="_blank">morning pages</a> or just debrief with a journal at the end of the day, you gotta let those emotions fully feel. </p>
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18 Websites That'll Make The Custom Wedding Invitations Of Your Dreams
"I do" not know how you'll pick just one.
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When it comes to wedding planning, each and every detail is customized to the style of the couple. From venue and decorations to food and beverages, nothing gets overlooked — whether your wedding is big, small, or virtual.
The same thing goes for invites, which are getting more and more beautiful every wedding season. If you're looking to customize your wedding invitations, the options are endless... you can add pictures if you wish, opt for fancy artwork, or keep it simple with just text).
<p><strong>Here are 18 of the best websites that'll let you make the custom wedding invites of your dreams.</strong></p><p><em>Note: the listed prices below are the cost per invitation when purchasing 100 of those pictured — unless otherwise noted. Prices may vary based on style, customization, and sales.</em><br/></p>
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Artifact Uprising
<a href="https://www.artifactuprising.com/wedding-invitations/timeless-trim" target="_blank"><img type="lazy-image" data-runner-src="https://assets.rebelmouse.io/eyJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiIsInR5cCI6IkpXVCJ9.eyJpbWFnZSI6Imh0dHBzOi8vYXNzZXRzLnJibC5tcy8yMzU1NjU1OS9vcmlnaW4uanBnIiwiZXhwaXJlc19hdCI6MTYxNTg4MjMwNn0.lAeGKyF9qmuZseU-y98YopP7rCD_u4QGsNGkFRcLSBA/img.jpg?width=980" id="4b174" class="rm-shortcode" data-rm-shortcode-id="fb9553b1165b62f8691dcd07c6d1cd89" data-rm-shortcode-name="rebelmouse-image" /></a>
$2.40
Etsy
<a href="https://www.awin1.com/cread.php?awinmid=6220&awinaffid=510025&clickref=&ued=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.etsy.com%2Flisting%2F499763827%2Fvintage-wedding-invitation-set-printable" target="_blank"><img type="lazy-image" data-runner-src="https://assets.rebelmouse.io/eyJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiIsInR5cCI6IkpXVCJ9.eyJpbWFnZSI6Imh0dHBzOi8vYXNzZXRzLnJibC5tcy8yMzU1NjU2My9vcmlnaW4ucG5nIiwiZXhwaXJlc19hdCI6MTY1NzYyMTM5Nn0.cDRpOIC6ys_wE0T0JDinRQlHwK_gyTWccK3K9tDGdXY/img.png?width=980" id="d6e31" class="rm-shortcode" data-rm-shortcode-id="8669b2b72c3e64d215cdf67550bc4b6e" data-rm-shortcode-name="rebelmouse-image" /></a><p><em>Listed price is for a set of printable invitations.</em></p>
$11.99
Greenvelope
<a href="https://www.greenvelope.com/designs/wedding-invitations" target="_blank"><img type="lazy-image" data-runner-src="https://assets.rebelmouse.io/eyJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiIsInR5cCI6IkpXVCJ9.eyJpbWFnZSI6Imh0dHBzOi8vYXNzZXRzLnJibC5tcy8yMzU1NTIwMy9vcmlnaW4ucG5nIiwiZXhwaXJlc19hdCI6MTYzOTE3NzQ1Nn0.Xfi1HOwLdoSAg2RSx_aU84sgr8Ab_xawWD3SErxiC28/img.png?width=980" id="3d5c1" class="rm-shortcode" data-rm-shortcode-id="e01f735dd566251dc8e33e5954d26f1f" data-rm-shortcode-name="rebelmouse-image" /></a>
$0.99
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Invitations by Dawn
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$1.34
The Knot
<a href="https://www.theknot.com/paper/invitations/wedding-invitations/product/abstract-watercolor-wedding-invitations?active_color=gold" target="_blank"><img type="lazy-image" data-runner-src="https://assets.rebelmouse.io/eyJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiIsInR5cCI6IkpXVCJ9.eyJpbWFnZSI6Imh0dHBzOi8vYXNzZXRzLnJibC5tcy8yMzU1NjU0OS9vcmlnaW4uanBnIiwiZXhwaXJlc19hdCI6MTYxMDYxMjQyM30.mhWxGBYgew1ACoaHm1I-81JpXcyktwDWbxFiCUUntYI/img.jpg?width=980" id="6a16d" class="rm-shortcode" data-rm-shortcode-id="d870f2d48a04e8f3b38231885239a5e2" data-rm-shortcode-name="rebelmouse-image" /></a>
$1.99
MagnetStreet
<a href="https://www.magnetstreet.com/product/watercolor-laurel-wedding-invitations?productId=78188&noFoil=1&attributeIds=3" target="_blank"><img type="lazy-image" data-runner-src="https://assets.rebelmouse.io/eyJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiIsInR5cCI6IkpXVCJ9.eyJpbWFnZSI6Imh0dHBzOi8vYXNzZXRzLnJibC5tcy8yMzU1NjU0NC9vcmlnaW4ucG5nIiwiZXhwaXJlc19hdCI6MTY0MTg4MjQ0OH0.r8_gq-e6o-IghIp0VxHK4WApJlihQB_3yjRiDysiazo/img.png?width=980" id="f8869" class="rm-shortcode" data-rm-shortcode-id="ef19b87717221dfb479d813dcfd26808" data-rm-shortcode-name="rebelmouse-image" /></a>
$0.64
Minted
<a href="https://www.minted.com/product/wedding-invitations/MIN-UJA-INV/classy-type?color=F&greeting=&shape=default" target="_blank"><img type="lazy-image" data-runner-src="https://assets.rebelmouse.io/eyJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiIsInR5cCI6IkpXVCJ9.eyJpbWFnZSI6Imh0dHBzOi8vYXNzZXRzLnJibC5tcy8yMzU1NjUxMC9vcmlnaW4ucG5nIiwiZXhwaXJlc19hdCI6MTYyMjk5ODg0NH0.LfSVGdosJ9n03jfc4caSfyafVDyxBzyXuG23uh9d39w/img.png?width=980" id="e83d3" class="rm-shortcode" data-rm-shortcode-id="7f500d83eb2e50e7d274b56c2faccce3" data-rm-shortcode-name="rebelmouse-image" /></a>
$2.34
Mixbook
<a href="https://www.mixbook.com/cards/wedding-invitations/outlined-floral-wedding-8349?ipid=420&ptid=30488" target="_blank"><img type="lazy-image" data-runner-src="https://assets.rebelmouse.io/eyJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiIsInR5cCI6IkpXVCJ9.eyJpbWFnZSI6Imh0dHBzOi8vYXNzZXRzLnJibC5tcy8yMzU1NjUwNC9vcmlnaW4ucG5nIiwiZXhwaXJlc19hdCI6MTYzNzYxMDQzOH0.igP_UGuz3m56kQhS6y5ZmDbnuJrsnWvX6tae2nK-tYQ/img.png?width=980" id="c53de" class="rm-shortcode" data-rm-shortcode-id="9ade4aa0dd78da6ff4ca0b07f4227007" data-rm-shortcode-name="rebelmouse-image" /></a>
$1.82
Paper Culture
<a href="https://www.paperculture.com/eco/modern-meets-vintage-wedding-invitation-suites-p-25067.html" target="_blank"><img type="lazy-image" data-runner-src="https://assets.rebelmouse.io/eyJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiIsInR5cCI6IkpXVCJ9.eyJpbWFnZSI6Imh0dHBzOi8vYXNzZXRzLnJibC5tcy8yMzU1NjQ5Mi9vcmlnaW4ucG5nIiwiZXhwaXJlc19hdCI6MTYxNDE4MzM1Mn0.kS4IlCUHYykyPgNh01-j7v4DJ34ddHuKzAzxRMBa3bw/img.png?width=980" id="61bf8" class="rm-shortcode" data-rm-shortcode-id="9ccd4bc9203ae75dfdfaa1ed218c6b54" data-rm-shortcode-name="rebelmouse-image" /></a>
$1.95
Paperless Post
<a href="https://www.paperlesspost.com/cards/card/33618" target="_blank"><img type="lazy-image" data-runner-src="https://assets.rebelmouse.io/eyJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiIsInR5cCI6IkpXVCJ9.eyJpbWFnZSI6Imh0dHBzOi8vYXNzZXRzLnJibC5tcy8yMzU1NjQ4Ny9vcmlnaW4ucG5nIiwiZXhwaXJlc19hdCI6MTYyNTY0NDU4OX0.DGDnpjZ_HAQsKFuBevj0CmokdOoRoUcbw7BVoBm8qTQ/img.png?width=980" id="1b507" class="rm-shortcode" data-rm-shortcode-id="b0784d1ffe3634a47fbdf5a67292647a" data-rm-shortcode-name="rebelmouse-image" /></a><p><em>Price varies for e-vites (electronic invitations), but it's approx. $10 to send to 100 people.</em></p>
$10.00
Paper Source
<a href="https://www.papersource.com/wedding/jardin-wedding-invitation-w1067-195224205208.html" target="_blank"><img type="lazy-image" data-runner-src="https://assets.rebelmouse.io/eyJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiIsInR5cCI6IkpXVCJ9.eyJpbWFnZSI6Imh0dHBzOi8vYXNzZXRzLnJibC5tcy8yMzU1NjQ3MC9vcmlnaW4uanBnIiwiZXhwaXJlc19hdCI6MTY1MDY1Nzc3NH0.aFieJbCxsukmlcu7SqNm4siAMzsSM4_kjeCP0Oah0eg/img.jpg?width=980" id="a1b2e" class="rm-shortcode" data-rm-shortcode-id="cad87241c1315d84bb69a8173e25d308" data-rm-shortcode-name="rebelmouse-image" /></a>
$2.20
Papier
<a href="https://www.papier.com/us/blooming-peonies-5240" target="_blank"><img type="lazy-image" data-runner-src="https://assets.rebelmouse.io/eyJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiIsInR5cCI6IkpXVCJ9.eyJpbWFnZSI6Imh0dHBzOi8vYXNzZXRzLnJibC5tcy8yMzU1NjQ0NS9vcmlnaW4ucG5nIiwiZXhwaXJlc19hdCI6MTYwNjM0OTM4NX0.KrdFIix8b7Fu7WWIcCFDFrJkff5U7ygtqeBBP_a9pJg/img.png?width=980" id="f0e1d" class="rm-shortcode" data-rm-shortcode-id="9bc3c8e46ae9f2a14ba3c8fb8e2fd0a1" data-rm-shortcode-name="rebelmouse-image" /></a>
$1.74
Shutterfly
<a href="https://www.shutterfly.com/cards-stationery/wedding-invitations/botanical-union-wedding-invitation?productCode=1359183&categoryCode=1131577&skuCode=1359184" target="_blank"><img type="lazy-image" data-runner-src="https://assets.rebelmouse.io/eyJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiIsInR5cCI6IkpXVCJ9.eyJpbWFnZSI6Imh0dHBzOi8vYXNzZXRzLnJibC5tcy8yMzU1NjQzNS9vcmlnaW4ucG5nIiwiZXhwaXJlc19hdCI6MTYzMzQzODk5M30.Au-_aoKLgwSB4yAdqiANqid52e43nw4JXBW_A0we9WY/img.png?width=980" id="60477" class="rm-shortcode" data-rm-shortcode-id="c24a431e4406987ec672b63240939ea3" data-rm-shortcode-name="rebelmouse-image" /></a>
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23 Burning Questions We Have For The Taureans In Our Lives, Answered By A Taurus
The remaining 11 signs took the bull by the horns, and it was a fun and insightful experience!
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Jordyn Leach
Lately, I've been digging deeper into astrology and studying my sign. Throughout the journey, it's come to my attention that Taurus are probably one of the most complicated signs - that is, if you're not a Taurus.
To gain a little more perspective on how my sign is viewed by the others, I requested that the participants submit a question in response to the following:
<p><strong>If you could ask a Taurus one question, what would it be? </strong></p><p>Not only did I learn a lot about myself as I answered them, but I learned about the participants based on their questions and their sign's characteristics as well. Overall, this was a fun experience for me! </p><p>To stay true to my sign, I organized the questions by sign (according to the starting date) and alphabetized the participants. Here are some burning questions people have about a Taurus, answered by yours truly — a Taurus!</p><p><div class="powrload_9edb92"></div>
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Why do we only have to do things your way? - Izabella, Aquarius
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<p>I consider myself a dominant person and I just need to be in control of a situation. When I'm not, I'm significantly more stressed, and my anxiety skyrockets. </p><p><strong>If I had to guess, that stems from my lack of trust in people — which is another common Taurus characteristic. </strong></p><p>To add, I, <i>we</i>, like having plans, routines, and generally like to be organized, so if someone we're with happens to have an idea or plan that doesn't meet our standards, we have an urge to take over because whatever we can come up with is usually better — in my experience. </p><p>Not to mention, Taurus are natural-born leaders, courtesy of our ties to the bull, so it only makes sense that we want to take the reigns instead of being a follower. </p>
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Why do you guys always exaggerate the truth? - Mallory, Pisces
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<p>While I'll admit to exaggerating things here and there, and appreciating the truth, I can't speak for the combination of both. If I ever have, or another Taurus has, it was probably the result of wanting to impress someone or trying to make a situation sound better than it really is. </p><p><strong>I'm definitely guilty of trying to throw glamor and prior achievements around like confetti.</strong></p><p>But I'm not going to exaggerate something, especially the truth, if I know I can't back it up later on. </p><p>Granted, there are times when I over-exaggerate something to get my point across, especially if it's a topic up for debate and I know I'm right. Though, that's just a bull standing their ground. </p><p>So I wouldn't say we <i>always </i>exaggerate the truth, but maybe it varies person-to-person? </p>
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You guys are already so cool. Why do you always need so much approval from everyone? - Mallory, Pisces
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<p>I'm a very determined and hard-working person, like most Taureans, so when I feel that my work deserves to be appreciated or showcased, I'll definitely seek the approval of my peers. </p><p><strong>No one wants their efforts to go unappreciated in any sense, especially if they're proud of the outcome. </strong></p><p>On the flip side, on a personal level, I honestly couldn't care less about what people think of <i>me</i>. If you love me, cool, and if you don't, that's fine too. At the end of the day, I know who I am and the fact of the matter is, I only let people see what I <i>want </i>them to see — it's all about the first impression and your attitude toward me. </p><p><strong>Ultimately, it's up to you if you get the horns or not. </strong></p><p>Seeking approval from everyone about you, as a person, would be tiresome for <i>anyone</i>. People are going to think what they want but ultimately, you know the truth. Screw what everyone else has to say. </p>
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Do you ever get stereotyped when people ask if you're a Taurus? - Dayah, Aries
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<p>If someone is really into the zodiac signs and happens to be familiar with the common traits of each sign, they'd be able to guess I'm a Taurus simply because I'm as stubborn as they come. There's no reason to ask. </p><p><strong>That stereotype lingers and I exude it almost every single day. </strong></p><p>Stereotypes exist for a reason, and there's normally <i>some</i> truth to it no matter how much one tries to deny - it doesn't matter who you are or what your sign is. </p>
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What's the best thing about being a Taurus? - Dayah, Aries
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<p>While it can be stressful at times, it's nice to know that people trust me with, sometimes, very personal feelings — whether it be keeping a secret, partaking in an elaborate venting session with a friend, or asking for advice. </p><p><strong>It warms my heart to know people trust me enough to open up like that. </strong></p><p>To a degree, people depend on me and it's just nice to feel wanted and that my previous efforts toward the friendship/relationship were worth it. </p>
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I'm one day away from being a Taurus but I always identified more with that than my fiery Aries! Do you ever find your empathy to be a problem? - Gabby, Aries
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<p>There's a lot that goes into this one, whether it be personally or in general, so bear with me.</p><p>One of the biggest faults that a Taurus has is their loyalty; my loyalty. Rather, it's a catch-22 than a fault. If a friend or family member of mine is in need for whatever reason, I'm there whether it be physically or emotionally. </p><p>I've always worn my heart on my sleeve, and being a support system for so many people has gradually taken a toll on me over the years because I always try to match my mood with theirs. </p><p><strong>It doesn't matter what I may be feeling or going through — my loyalty to others always trumps loyalty to myself. </strong></p><p>Eventually, that becomes a massive problem for me and my mental health — which leads me to the next question and my next point. </p>
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I know Taureans feel emotions very strongly. Does it get taxing? - Gabby, Aries
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<p>Most of the time, I help others before I even think of helping myself, and unfortunately, I give more than I get. And yes, it definitely gets taxing, Still, I, <i>we</i>, don't want to show vulnerability or <i>weakness</i>. </p><p><strong>I always feel the need to be the strong one in any scenario, especially emotionally, because I refuse to let anyone see the latter — stubborn, right? </strong></p><p>I have this philosophy that if I'm with a friend and they're upset and/or vulnerable, I need to be the strong one to pick them back up after they've fallen because having two people like that at one time just isn't a good thing. </p><p>Normally, one might see this as a 'vice versa' scenario, right? No. </p><p>The toxic part, as much as I hate to admit it, is that I only <em>let </em>people see the strong side - never the side that's shattering. I have this mindset that if I let other people see my weaknesses, they won't think I'm strong anymore and no one will need or want me to be there. </p><p><strong>Because, if I can't carry my own weight, how can I possibly carry theirs?</strong></p><p>Maybe that's just me, or maybe I put something into words that others like me couldn't and they're glad someone could <i>finally</i> express it. Still, the hard truth is that it's toxic, taxing, and terrible for our mental health. </p>
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So many of the Taureans I know are scared of change, even if it would be better for them in the long run (I live with two and work with one). Can you explain the feelings behind this? - Paige, Aries
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<p>The only way I can make sense of this is that Earth signs like to stay grounded. All 12 signs are divided into the four elements: Earth, Air, Fire, and Water. Because Capricorn, Taurus, and Virgo are Earth signs, we have a lot in common and your question is one of them. </p><p><strong>I have routines for everything I do because it helps me stay organized and less stressed, as most Taureans do. </strong></p><p>So when/if something disrupts, or even attempts to disrupt, a routine that I like, it affects my entire day in the most negative way, and it's just a downward spiral from there. </p><p>I imagine that the Taureans you know have the same mindset to a degree. Change just disrupts the balance that we've found — a balance that eventually became our comfort zone. </p><p><strong>Change, when it's required, is something I tolerate, especially when it's something I'm not in control of. </strong></p><p>However, when change inevitably happens, I find myself making plans in my head, if not on paper, so I can adjust and organize accordingly. </p><p>It's kind of like having the "there's a place for everything, and everything stays in its place" philosophy in your home. Your guests or roommates might not know where something is but you sure do, and God forbid if someone moves something without you knowing it. </p>
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Why do you like routines so much? - Katrina, Gemini
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<p>I like routines because I like to know what's coming my way. </p><p><strong>It helps me mentally and physically prepare for my day-to-day, and it's significantly less stressful than it would be without a routine or plan. </strong></p><p>Routines just help me feel more secure and stable, but that's also a generalized Taurus trait that you can look up with basically any Google search — another being the fact that we like stability and will do almost anything to achieve it. </p><p>If a routine is interrupted, changed, or just doesn't go the way that I planned, it affects my mood and inevitably, my entire day. </p><p><strong>I imagine I'm definitely not the only Taurus that feels that way either. </strong></p><p>As a side note, this is why, personally, spontaneity isn't my thing. If something comes up last minute, whether it be for business or pleasure, mapping out some sort of plan in my head is a default setting. I can never genuinely 'fly by the seat of my pants', as they say. </p>
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Would you consider Cancer a soulmate sign like many do? - Anonymous, Cancer
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<p>In my experience, absolutely not. Though to be truthful, I'm basing that decision on the faults of one Cancer who was, by textbook definition, a literal narcissistic sociopath. </p><p><strong>It's not fair for me to discriminate against all because of one bad apple y'all probably wouldn't claim anyway. </strong></p><p>In general, Taurus and Cancer have a strong compatibility rating to a degree but oddly enough, I always find myself being pulled toward Virgos and Geminis. Virgos, I can understand but Geminis, I can't fully explain that one. </p>
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Are you aware that everyone has an opinion? - Kyle, Cancer
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<p>Yes, I'm aware that everyone has an opinion, as are all other Taureans out there. The issue, I've found, is that it's not whether or not people agree with what I have to say, but justifying an already flimsy opinion with absolutely no logic. </p><p><strong>A simple philosophy I live by: An opinion is like an a**hole; everyone has one and nine times out of ten, it's always sh*tty to someone. </strong></p><p>Life is a lot easier when you don't take things too seriously and you can find something to laugh about, especially when it comes to varying opinions that may or may not coincide with your own. </p>
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What is your least favorite trait of your sign? - Kyle, Cancer
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<p>I don't consider myself a materialistic person, which is one of the known Taurus traits. Likewise, other Taurus traits that go hand-in-hand with this are 'greedy' and 'money-hungry'. </p><p>I consider myself an ambitious person who wants to live a successful and comfortable life. </p><p><strong>But, personally, I don't need to chase labels or have six figures in my bank account for me to achieve that. </strong></p><p>It's true, Taureans recognize and appreciate the value of a dollar but where most think that's in regards to spending it, we (or I) recognize the value in regards to what I had to do to <i>earn</i> it. </p><p>When someone refers to Taurus as a materialistic, greedy, or money-hungry sign, it makes me cringe because I don't (or I'd like to think I don't) identify with other people's interpretations of what that means and I don't want to be tied to that. </p>
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Do you feel like you have Taurus traits? - Michael, Cancer
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<p>If I wasn't born during Taurus season, I would swear that someone made a mistake and consider myself an honorary Taurus anyway. </p><p><strong>The more I study astrology: signs, traits, common behaviors, etc., the more I realize I couldn't be anything else. </strong></p><p>I love my routines and being organized because I need ways to keep myself grounded whether it be physically, mentally, or emotionally. My loyalty knows very few bounds, and friends and family consider me a very dependable person — when I say I'll do something or that I'll be somewhere, I'm there. </p><p>Taureans are also recognized for being intelligent to coincide with the bull, so don't mind me while I disregard another Taurus trait (being humble) and toot my own horn. Also, ask anyone and they'll tell you that I'm hard-working — though I want to credit that to my parents who taught me that a strong work ethic goes a long way. </p><p>Procrastination is definitely a factor sometimes, and God knows I'm guilty of it, but when the time comes, I'm a pressure player, and my hard work is always reflected in the final product. </p><p>Likewise, as much as I'd rather not admit the cliche' toxic traits, I can't because I'd be denying part of myself that's 100 percent true. </p><p><strong>There's no doubting I'm stubborn and if I tried to deny it, I'd burst into laughter before finishing the sentence. </strong></p><p>I'm easy-going until someone says or does the wrong thing and to be blunt, all hell breaks loose and I'm rarely ashamed of it. Everyone should know better than to take a bull by the horns.</p><p> <strong>Taureans are also seen as greedy and money-hungry and though that's harsh, I have to agree to an extent. </strong></p><p>However, I don't feel like acknowledging the value of money, yearning for a comfortable life, and doing anything to make that dream a reality is necessarily a bad thing. </p><p>My tenacity is also unmatched but I personally believe that was a trait passed down from my parents more than anything — but as Capricorns, a fellow Earth sign, it makes sense. </p>
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Taurus are known for being stubborn. Do you think that is true, or that a lot of people are stubborn regardless of zodiac? - Kayla, Leo
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<p>If I ever tried to utter the words, "I'm not stubborn", I would start laughing before I finished the sentence because no one in their right mind would actually believe that coming from <em>my</em> mouth.</p><p> <strong>Personally, I believe the stereotype is 100 percent true. In general, it's 100 percent true. </strong></p><p>However, <i>everyone</i> is stubborn to a certain degree. It just depends on the person and situation. Even still, there's a reason that stubbornness is the first trait people think of when 'Taurus' pops in their mind. </p>
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How do you guys stay so strong willed? - Kayla, Leo
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<p>It's the glorious combination of our stubbornness, tenacity, and determination, with a dash of dependability. </p><p>The people that know me know that, most of the time, I don't take no for an answer without a fight — especially when it comes to achieving success. </p><p>If anything or anyone stands in my way, I'll gladly charge head-first into a situation or task until I get a result that I want, regardless of whether or not I have to step on some toes along the way. </p><p><strong>Personally, I stay strong-willed, or at least attempt to do so, because I know others are depending on me to be. </strong></p><p>The last thing I want to do is let them down. And from what I've seen, a lot of Taureans share the same mindset to some degree - whether they want to admit it or not. </p>
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How are you so determined and ambitious without getting tired? - Maddie, Virgo
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<p>To be short and sweet as a college student, I consume a lot of caffeinated drinks. </p><p>To be serious and a little thorough, I have certain expectations for myself and the only way that I can achieve them according to my high standards is to continuously push myself. </p><p><strong>Likewise, I have many people depending on me for a multitude of things and the last thing I want is to let them down. </strong></p><p>In all honesty, the more I progress through college and get closer to starting my career, the more the saying "I'll sleep when I'm dead" becomes a reality. There's so much to do in such limited allotted times that I have to keep going even when I know I should sit back and relax for a bit — or dare I say, take a nap. </p>
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Why does your sign look like Plankton from Spongebob Squarepants? - Anonymous Redditor, Libra
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<p>For those that are curious solely based on the question, I added the photo above as a point of reference. </p><p>In all honesty, I can't even begin to tell you how long I laughed at this. It's something I hadn't noticed before and I'm glad someone brought it up. </p><p><strong>Thank you to the Redditor that contributed this — y'all never disappoint. </strong></p><p>I don't have a solid answer but if I had to guess, Plankton is determined to steal the Krabby Patty Secret Formula (even though we all know it's crab). </p><p>Because determination is one of the well-known traits of Taurus, I'll make the assumption Plankton was <i>meant </i>to be a Taurus — even though his birthday is November 30, 1942, making him a Sagittarius. </p><p><strong>It's OK though, Plankton can be an honorary Taurus in my book.</strong> </p>
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Why are half of y'all the most blunt and rude people but the other half are pushovers who don't share their feelings? - Anonymous Redditor, Scorpio
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<p>Every zodiac sign is split between two months, so the way that I can make sense of this is by comparing the April Taurus and the May Taurus. </p><p>Someone, though I'm not entirely sure who said that an April Taurus wants to be seen whereas a May Taurus wants to be heard. </p><p><strong>Being a May Taurus, I can confirm I always want to be heard and never stop talking to reflect that. </strong></p><p>Taureans that are born in April want to pull people's attention in a loud way that isn't necessarily expressed with words. In my opinion, based on observing people I know, the Taureans that are born in May embody what a Taurus <i>should</i>, and is known to, be and the Taureans born in April more closely embody Aries. </p><p>To answer in a more straightforward way, Taureans are blunt because they appreciate the cold, hard truth, no matter whose feelings get hurt. Personally, I like to see the reality of a situation rather than seeing a pretty, sugar-coated version. </p><p><strong>On the other hand, Taureans aren't pushovers by any means. </strong></p><p>Speaking for myself, but also may be seen as a generality, I don't share certain details with people that I don't trust — because most things aren't anyone's business. If I trust you, </p><p>I'll open up because I know you'll respect the fact that what is shared between us stays between us — like Vegas, but with intel.</p><p>So, to provide a little insight to the person who submitted this question: based on the way I see it, the Taurus who inspired you to ask this question doesn't trust you enough, <em>or at all,</em> to share their feelings. </p><p><strong>It doesn't mean they're a pushover who doesn't express themselves; it just means they're being careful — especially around you.</strong> </p>
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Do y'all really eat 24/7? - Anonymous Redditor, Scorpio
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<p>Do we need to breathe to survive?</p><p>I'm kidding. I won't lie, we're suckers for the 6th Deadly Sin — <i>gluttony</i> for those that might've cocked an eyebrow. However, we like to pick our moments — or at least I do. </p>
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What's the biggest INCORRECT stereotype about your sign? - Justin, Sagittarius
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<p>One of my biggest pet peeves is when someone has the audacity to call me <i>selfish</i>. It's probably one of the quickest ways to infuriate me and I swear, I turn into the cartoon where their face turns red and steam comes out of their ears. </p><p><strong>My bad attitude surfaces in record time if someone <i>dares</i> to say that I'm selfish. </strong></p><p>Taurus loyalty is unmatched and we tend to put others before ourselves, even when it isn't in our best interest. But sure, call us selfish and see what happens. </p>
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How do you deal with confrontation? Passive-aggressive, straight forward, or a little bit of both? - Shelby, Sagittarius
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<p>Personally, I deal with confrontation head-on. If someone wants to take the bull by the horns, per se, I'm game. If someone can dish it out, they better be able to take it — and if they can't, they never should've opened their mouth to begin with. </p><p>If there's ever a time when I'm passive-aggressive, which is rare, it's only because I'm not in the mood to <i>really</i> retaliate just yet. </p><p><strong>I'll take notes and observe from the sidelines until I'm presented with the <i>just </i>the right moment.</strong> </p>
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Taurus are normally seen as stubborn but they're ironically ruled by Venus, which signifies love. How does this play out in a successful relationship? - J, Capricorn
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<p>There's a lot that goes into this, both from a personal and generalized standpoint, so bear with me. </p><p><strong>From an astrological standpoint, Venus loves when it crosses paths with Taurus because it feels more at home. </strong></p><p>From what I've read as I dig deeper into my sign, Taurus is a highly sensual Earth sign and when Venus happens to be in retrograde with Taurus, it encourages a heightened need for self-indulgence, self-love, and sensuality. </p><p>This is the prime time for basically any Taurus to listen to their bodies and indulge themselves in any way they can, especially in regards to romance. </p><p>If you ever notice a behavioral change with a Taurus, whether it's subtle or otherwise, this is probably why (whether they realize it or not). </p><p><strong>In hindsight, I can see where this might've happened with myself a time or two...or 20, but who's counting?</strong></p><p>In any type of relationship, whether it be romantic or friendly, I and my fellow Taureans thrive on open and honest communication, stability, and loyalty. For us, that's just Relationship 101. </p><p>Because any good relationship is build on trust, and it's nearly impossible for any Taurus to trust someone without any rhyme or reason, there needs to be that solid communication in order for any type of relationship to be successful. </p><p>Likewise, a Taurus appreciates meaningful gestures in a relationship, especially the sensual and romantic ones, and at the right times — courtesy of Venus. </p><p><strong>In regards to loyalty, we want someone who understands and respects our loyalty with loved ones — and we expect that the same loyalty is reciprocated. </strong></p><p>Taurus are known to be hard-headed and set in their ways with virtually anything, and relationships are no exception. In reality, we don't ask for much but a lot of times, it's misconstrued as something more complicated than it is. </p><p><strong>It seems to me, wanting a significant other to reciprocate your efforts in a relationship isn't too big of an ask. </strong></p><p>In fact, it should be a given that reciprocating open and honest communication, stability, and loyalty is expected regardless of what your zodiac sign happens to be, as these are the foundation of any successful relationship. </p><p>At the end of the day, Taureans know what they want in a relationship (and in life); <em>I know what I want in a relationship</em>. It should be no surprise that Taureans are set in their ways, especially when it comes to their love lives. If that's stubborn in any sense of the word, so be it. </p>
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Why do y'all hurt people's feelings and cut people off for saying their opinion? - Nicole, Capricorn
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<p>When I hurt people's feelings, it's normally because they asked for my input. </p><p><strong>I was brutally honest, and they didn't like what I had to say. </strong></p><p>Friends, family, and acquaintances of mine know that I'm blunt and brutally honest, which is why I ask "are you sure?" when they ask for my opinion — a habit passed down from my mom. </p><p>If someone happens to say yes to that question, I won't hold back. I can't help that their feelings get hurt when they literally asked for it. </p><p><strong>It sounds more like their problem than mine, if I'm being honest. </strong></p><p>Likewise, to a previously answered question, if I cut people off based on an opinion, it's because it was a flimsy opinion to begin with that they tried to justify with no logic, or flat out stupidity. </p><p>I'm in favor of hearing other people's opinions, especially when I ask for them, but if your opinion reveals the true colors that I don't want on my color wheel, I'll have to ask you to exit stage left. </p>
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21 Songs That Will Make You Feel Like The Main Character
Life's a movie, you're the main character.
13 August
Universal Pictures
A music enthusiast like myself has a playlist for every mood. Life's a movie and you're the main character. In no specific order, listen to these songs to feel on top of the world!
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1. "Cold Cold Man" - Saint Motel
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2. "Someone To You" - BANNERS
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3. "Electric Love" - BORNS
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4. "Time To Pretend" - MGMT
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5. "Tongue Tied" - Grouplove
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6. "Take a Walk" - Passion Pit
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7. "Home" - Edward Sharpe and The Magnetic Zeros
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8. "Kids" - MGMT
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9. "Mountain Sound" - Of Monsters and Men
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10. "You've Got The Love" - Florence and the Machines
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11. "Marlboro Nights" - Lonely God
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12. "Everybody Talks" - Neon Trees
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13. "You Know It" - Colony House
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14. "Out of My League" - Fitz and The Tantrums
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15. "Fools Gold" - Fitz and The Tantrums
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16. "Gimme! Gimme! Gimme!" - ABBA
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17. "Valerie" - Amy Winehouse, Mark Ronson
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18. "Daylight" - Matt and Kim
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19. "Litsztomania" - Pheonix
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20. "Mean It" - Lany
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21. "Wouldn't It Be Nice" - The Beach Boys
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10 Reminders To Have In Your Mental Health Toolkit During Sorority Recruitment
It'll work out for the best, just be yourself.
13 August
It's the most wonderful time of the year again — it's sorority recruitment season! While recruitment can be a fun and memorable experience, it can also take a toll on your mental health, especially this year, considering the special circumstances brought about by the COVID-19 pandemic. Here are a few reminders to keep in your mental health toolkit during recruitment week to help keep your mental health at bay during this unique experience.
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1. Be your true and authentic self
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<p>One of the biggest pieces of advice that I could give to a potential new member (PNM) is to be yourself. Don't try to change yourself to try and "fit" with a specific house, it just isn't worth it. You don't want to try and be someone you aren't and ultimately end up in a house that is wrong for you or that you don't fit in. You are trying to find your home away from home while at college. Why would you want your "home" to be a place where you have to pretend that you are someone you're not?</p>
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2. Your worth is not determined by who you get a bid from
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<p>I remember when I through recruitment as a PNM this time last year. I thought that getting a bid from a top house was the most important thing in the entire world. But believe it or not, it doesn't really matter that much. The sorority women are all working their hardest to find the best fit for you. Don't worry about which sorority has the most extravagant house or the prettiest sisters. I can promise you that your worth and reputation in college are not solely determined by which sorority you receive a bid from. </p>
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3. Keep an open mind
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<p>Recruitment week tends to be full of surprises which can be good or bad. You may be surprised to find that you were dropped by one of your top houses when you may have thought that you had a great connection with the women there. The best thing you can do for yourself is to try and keep an open mind. As I stated earlier, the sorority women are working their absolute hardest to help you find the best sorority for you. They just may not think they are the best fit for you and will do their best to direct you elsewhere. You may end up getting a bid from your bottom house and end up finding the perfect fit there. </p>
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4. You will find the place where you belong
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<p>Sorority recruitment will help you find somewhere you belong. That place may be your dream sorority, your bottom house, or even a club that a sorority woman mentions she is involved in. Even if you don't end up going all the way through with recruitment or get dropped for some reason, it is still a great way to meet new people and see different parts of campus during your first few weeks of college. </p>
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5. It's OK to be nervous
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<p>It is totally OK and normal to be nervous about recruitment. Any way that you feel about recruitment is totally valid and sorority women can understand because they have been exactly where you are. </p>
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6. The sorority women are likely just as nervous as you are
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<p>Recruitment week is stressful for everyone involved. Sorority women go though weeks (sometimes even months!) of intense training in order to properly prepare to help you find where you belong. They are likely just as nervous to talk to you as you are to them. We are truly all in the same boat and we need to embrace the nerves. </p>
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7. Try and enjoy this unique opportunity
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<p>Many colleges are opting to move recruitment to a virtual setting which is something that nobody has ever experienced before. This experience is going to be unique and memorable. Try your best to enjoy this unique chaos. </p>
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8. Embrace the uncertainty
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<p>There are so many things in the world right now that is unknown and uncertain. The best thing we can do is just try and embrace and enjoy the uncertainty in order to avoid stressing ourselves out any further. </p>
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9. These women have your best interest at heart
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<p>Sorority women have been working tirelessly all summer to try and adapt fall recruitment around our current circumstances. They're not only working to help you find your new home but show Panhellenic love by doing everything in their power to keep PNMs safe and healthy during the pandemic. </p>
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10. Go with the flow
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<p>As I have said before, these are unprecedented times and plans could potentially change at the drop of the hat. Understand that things could change and that it is alright. </p>
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I Asked 100 Dating App Users If They’re More Likely To Swipe Left Because Of Someone's Political Affiliation
It's not just an affiliation.
13 August
We've all been there. You see that super cute guy on your dating app of choice, his bio is funny, and then, the gut-wrenching feeling hits when you see their political views don't exactly line up with yours. He loves Trump, you can't stand him, or vice versa.
A lot of people will say you can get over politics, but I know from personal experience, as well as this survey, that politics play a huge role in whether a relationship will work or if we're even willing to swipe right on that profile.
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<strong>We surveyed 100 people and 90 of them said they would swipe left if someone's politics didn't match their own because a lot of people </strong><strong><a href="https://plato.stanford.edu/entries/equality/" target="_blank">equated their politics with their morals</a>.</strong>
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In fact, <a href="https://www.gq.com/story/political-views-dating-apps-messy" target="_blank">politics are popping up more and more on dating profiles</a> in today's modern age. They're even popping up in people's bios saying things like, "Swipe left if you're X party affiliation" or "Swipe left if you voted for X candidate." The results of our survey are below in the graph, and it's clear: politics are important.
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<small class="image-media media-photo-credit" placeholder="Add Photo Credit...">Bri Cicero</small>
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Curious about what people had to say? Check out some of the responses below. We'll start with 10 of those who fell under the "it's a deal-breaker" category followed by a handful of those who represented the "it's not a big deal" category.
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<div class="rebellt-item col1" id="rebelltitem1" data-id="1" data-reload-ads="false" data-is-image="False" data-href="https://www.theodysseyonline.com/swipe-left-politics-survey/1-sydney-25" data-basename="1-sydney-25" data-post-id="2646416644" data-published-at="1597279655" data-use-pagination="False">
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1. Sydney, 25
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<p>"Yes. I think that everyone is entitled to their own opinions, but think it's hard to move forward with someone if our fundamental beliefs are different."</p>
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<div class="rebellt-item col1" id="rebelltitem2" data-id="2" data-reload-ads="false" data-is-image="False" data-href="https://www.theodysseyonline.com/swipe-left-politics-survey/2-anna-32" data-basename="2-anna-32" data-post-id="2646416644" data-published-at="1597279655" data-use-pagination="False">
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2. Anna, 32
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<p>"Yes. People used to get away with saying that they weren't into politics, but now that things are so contentious, it's crucial to be educated. It's gotten to the point where supporting certain politicians means more than political parties, but ethical and moral standings."</p>
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<div class="rebellt-item col1" id="rebelltitem10" data-id="10" data-reload-ads="false" data-is-image="False" data-href="https://www.theodysseyonline.com/swipe-left-politics-survey/3-danielle-24" data-basename="3-danielle-24" data-post-id="2646416644" data-published-at="1597279655" data-use-pagination="False">
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3. Danielle, 24
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<p>"Yes, due to the desire to avoid large arguments over values within myself I am unwilling to change."</p>
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4. Jenna, 34
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<p>"Yes. My politics reflect my values. I already have to argue with my family about politics constantly, I have no desire to date someone who I'm on that different of a page with."</p>
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<div class="rebellt-item col1" id="rebelltitem8" data-id="8" data-reload-ads="false" data-is-image="False" data-href="https://www.theodysseyonline.com/swipe-left-politics-survey/5-berit-20" data-basename="5-berit-20" data-post-id="2646416644" data-published-at="1597279655" data-use-pagination="False">
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5. Berit, 20
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<p>"Yes, because the things I stand for politically are very important to me (I'm a liberal), and I don't want to be with someone who doesn't agree with what I stand for."</p>
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<div class="rebellt-item col1" id="rebelltitem7" data-id="7" data-reload-ads="false" data-is-image="False" data-href="https://www.theodysseyonline.com/swipe-left-politics-survey/6-katrina-28" data-basename="6-katrina-28" data-post-id="2646416644" data-published-at="1597279655" data-use-pagination="False">
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6. Katrina, 28
</h2>
<p>"Yes because I believe they are a deeper reflection of someone's values. If we share them, that's a bonus."</p>
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<div class="rebellt-item col1" id="rebelltitem6" data-id="6" data-reload-ads="false" data-is-image="False" data-href="https://www.theodysseyonline.com/swipe-left-politics-survey/7-kelly-25" data-basename="7-kelly-25" data-post-id="2646416644" data-published-at="1597279655" data-use-pagination="False">
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7. Kelly, 25
</h2>
<p>"Yes, if they have very strong views and those views don't match mine, it's too difficult to try and have a conversation about beliefs. I'd rather avoid the stress altogether and swipe left."</p>
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<div class="rebellt-item col1" id="rebelltitem5" data-id="5" data-reload-ads="false" data-is-image="False" data-href="https://www.theodysseyonline.com/swipe-left-politics-survey/8-bobbie-20" data-basename="8-bobbie-20" data-post-id="2646416644" data-published-at="1597279655" data-use-pagination="False">
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8. Bobbie, 20
</h2>
<p>"Yes, I grew up in a small town and I came to this college to get away from the political mindset opposite of mine. Earlier in college I tried to make those relationships work, but there were always uncomfortable topics we had to avoid. I'm not comfortable in a relationship where we can't talk about anything and everything!"</p>
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9. Michelle, 26
</h2>
<p>"Yes. Especially now, I feel like the country is so divided over political views. There are certain things that I need my partner to agree on or AT LEAST see eye-to-eye on and understand my view, and I don't think that's even a thing between parties right now."</p>
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<div class="rebellt-item col1" id="rebelltitem3" data-id="3" data-reload-ads="false" data-is-image="False" data-href="https://www.theodysseyonline.com/swipe-left-politics-survey/10-brenda-24" data-basename="10-brenda-24" data-post-id="2646416644" data-published-at="1597279655" data-use-pagination="False">
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10. Brenda, 24
</h2>
<p>"Yes, sharing common values and beliefs is very important to me."</p>
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<div class="rebellt-item col1" id="rebelltitem12" data-id="12" data-reload-ads="false" data-is-image="False" data-href="https://www.theodysseyonline.com/swipe-left-politics-survey/11-madeline-25" data-basename="11-madeline-25" data-post-id="2646416644" data-published-at="1597279655" data-use-pagination="False">
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11. Madeline, 25
</h2>
<p>"No, unless they are very outspoken about it on their page."</p>
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<div class="rebellt-item col1" id="rebelltitem13" data-id="13" data-reload-ads="false" data-is-image="False" data-href="https://www.theodysseyonline.com/swipe-left-politics-survey/12-lauren-25" data-basename="12-lauren-25" data-post-id="2646416644" data-published-at="1597279655" data-use-pagination="False">
<h2 data-role="headline">
12. Lauren, 25
</h2>
<p>"Based on their affiliation alone and just counting swiping, then no I wouldn't swipe left just for that. If we are talking about an issue I find important morally and there is disagreement, that is a different story. What WILL make me swipe left is a comment in a bio from someone (either affiliation; I have seen many from both) with a negative comment in their bio about the opposite affiliation in general. I think conversation of opposing sides is healthy for us to learn so anyone that completely shuts it down based on affiliation alone is a turn off for me. (I am unaffiliated if that matters at all!)"</p>
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13. Abbey, 21
</h2>
<p>"It really all depends. Initially, no. If they have different views on a topic I'm very passionate about, and it's too drastic of a difference, I probably would stop talking to the person. Political affiliation has never been a major factor for me when it comes to dating, but if they have different views than me and that difference begins to be too much and overwhelming, that's an issue."</p>
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<strong>There we have it. Politics matter. Period. So you better be sure you know what you're getting into if you put your political affiliation on your profile.</strong>
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