Dear f*Ckboys,

From now on, for the sake of profanity, I will refer to you as "players."

I have been inspired by years of seeing you all hurt girls time after time to write this.

And honestly, it's about time someone calls you out on your BS.

There is no reason to treat a perfectly good girl who just wants to treat you well, like she doesn't matter.

I have seen so many guys just walk all over amazing girls because they just couldn't keep their roaming eyes from looking at every other girl that walked by.

My question then is; why even be in a relationship at all if you cannot stay loyal to one person? If you just aren't ready, then don't lead a girl on, only to hurt her in the long run.

Please, think before you act.

If you know that you are not ready to be in a committed relationship, then make that clear.

Don't lead girls on or make it seem like you just want a relationship, only to break her heart days later.

This isn't middle school. Grow up and treat girls with respect.

Do you just like having the reputation of a player? Is that some macho guy thing?

When I have asked guys I know who exhibit some of these characteristics, I always point out just how nice it is to be able to stay in and watch a movie or play games with your significant other and I ask if they don't want that.

I am not sure what is so unappealing about sticking with one person, but I am not saying that you have to be dating someone. I am saying though, that you should not be getting in one if you are just going to go around breaking hearts Christina Perri style.

If you want to go around and be with a ton of girls then go ahead. Just make your intentions clear so that they do not expect anything or get their hopes up.

Once feelings get involved, that is when things can get tricky. So, if one of these girls does end up starting to catch feelings, then you need to be enough of a man to tell them that you are not ready to be with someone.

Girls will want to change that though. Almost every girl has thought that they can change a guy, but that is your choice to make and if you really do want to change then that needs to be your decision.

Some of you are douches, but some of you are nice guy who just has trouble deciding what you want. So, take a look at yourself and if you see that this is something that you want to change then please do your best to do so.

That means being honest with girls and treating them with kindness.

Treat them how you would want someone to treat your sister or your daughter, because they are someone's sister or daughter.

And to the girls who fall for these guys, there are so many nice guys out there so don't fall for these ones. You'll find someone who will treat you so much better than Brad or Chad.