To My Best Friend's Daughter

To My Best Friend's Daughter

I love you more than I could ever say.

Baby girl, I want to start out by saying I love you more than anything this world. I loved you from the moment I found out you were on the way. I loved you from the moment I say the picture your dad sent me the day you were born. Your mom and I have been friends for as long as I can remember, and to be able to call you my niece is the greatest honor I could have ever received. I know you're too young to understand now, but my hope is that one day I can read this to you, and hopefully all the thing I have to say will be true.

I promise that I will always be there for you. No matter how far away I am, or what time of day or night it is, I am only just a phone call away. Even if you're 15 and at a party where you need to get away from, I'll come pick you up. I won't even tell your mom. Or if you just broke up with your first boyfriend and think your mom won't understand, I'll be there to listen. I'll even probably threaten to kick his ass for hurting my precious niece. And I promise to be there when you argue with your mom. I'll agree that's she's awful, but still give you the advice you need to hear.

I promise to be at the events that mean the most to you. From VIP day at school to high school graduation, you better believe I'll be there. And I'll be the one cheering the loudest.

I promise to spoil you. And oh, will I spoil you. From new clothes to spa days, if I can give it to you, I will. I'll give you the pop your mom says no to, feed you sweets and then drop you back off at home. I'll do all the things the cool aunts do, and I'll do it 1000 times better.

But most of all, I promise to always love you. I promise to be a constant in your life. Even if you have annoyed the crap out of me, and I may snap and show my annoyance, I hope you know my love for you will never waiver. Even when I have my own children, you'll always hold a special place in my heart.

I love you darling, and know that if I could be there reading this to you now I would be. But sometimes life isn't fair, and I can't always be where I want. But you better believe I'll always, always, be there when you need me.

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To The Grandmothers Who Made Us The Women We Are Today

Sincerely, the loving granddaughters.

The relationship between a grandmother and her granddaughter is something so uniquely special and something to be treasured forever.

Your grandma loves you like you are her own daughter and adores you no matter what. She is the first person you run to when you have a problem with your parents and she never fails to grace you with the most comforting advice.

She may be guilty of spoiling you rotten but still makes sure to stress the importance of being thankful and kind.

Your grandma has most likely lived through every obstacle that you are experiencing now as a young adult and always knows just exactly what to say.

She grew up in another generation where things were probably much harder for young women than they are today.

She is a walking example of perseverance, strength, and grace who you aim to be like someday.

Your grandma teaches you the lessons she had to learn the hard way because she does not want you to make the same mistakes she did when she was growing up.

Her hugs never fail to warm your heart, her smile never fails to make you smile, and her laugh never fails to brighten your day.

She inspires you to be the best version of yourself that you can be.

You only hope that one day you can be the mother and grandmother she was to you.

A piece of girl’s heart will forever belong to her grandma that no one could ever replace.

She is the matriarch of your family and is the glue that holds you all together.

Grandmothers play such an important role in helping their granddaughters to grow into strong, intelligent, kind women.

She teaches you how to love and how to forgive.

Without the unconditional love of your grandma, you would not be the woman you are today.

To all of the grandmothers out there, thank you for being you.


the loving granddaughters

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Don't Feel Bad For Me When I Say I'm In A Long-Distance Relationship

There's no need for anyone to say, "oh, that sucks" or "that's annoying" or "I don't know how you do it" because I really do love my relationship.


When I first went out with my boyfriend, I wasn't expecting anything to come from it. He was in the Marines, stationed in South Carolina, and it was just a stupid Tinder date because I was bored and I thought he was funny and cute over Snapchat. Not only did he live an eight-hour drive away, but he was also heading out of the country for Christmas. I never thought I would ever hear from him again after I got into my car and drove back home.

But, I did, and a year and a half later, going on that coffee date was one of the best decisions I've ever made.

Right from the start, I knew if he and I were going to date, we would have to face a long-distance relationship for roughly two to three years- whether I finished school first or he got out of the military was up to fate. For us, being apart is normal. We're so used to talking through FaceTime rather than face to face and not seeing each other for weeks on end is more familiar than hugging. We've probably blown more kisses through the phone than having had real kisses.

Would I love to be just a minutes drive away from him?


Would I trade my relationship for anything else?


There's no reason for you to feel bad for me when I tell you I'm in a long distance relationship.

There's no need for anyone to say, "oh, that sucks' or "that's annoying" or "I don't know how you do it" because I really do love my relationship.

Being away from each other is just something we do. It lets us be independent, focus on work and school, but still allows us to support each other. Sure, long-distance relationships aren't for everyone, but couples make them work. No relationship is normal and like every other relationship, it takes patience, learning, and commitment. The only difference between a 'normal' relationship and a long-distance relationship is is that our 'date nights' consist of eating dinner together over FaceTime instead.

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