To The Jerks Who Date My Best Friend
Start writing a post
Relationships

To The Jerks Who Date My Best Friend

She deserves so much better than you.

219
To The Jerks Who Date My Best Friend
https://az616578.vo.msecnd.net/files/2017/11/13/6364618746313730081535186637_636458474535493992-612859955_jamieson-murphy-308756.jpg

You have no idea how much damage you cause.

You think your flirty behavior makes up for the ignorant comments and rude behavior.

Not even close.

My best friend has a heart of gold, but you already know that. That's why you take advantage of it.

You know she'll forgive you after every mistake.

But mistakes are accidental, and your actions are not.

You're weak. You succumb to the desires of your flesh and become a slave to them.

You do whatever you need to get your way.

You tell her she's gorgeous and there's no one else you'd rather spend time with, when all along you're thinking you can't wait to get what you want from her.

You become abusive.

When you wait longer than you think you deserve, you take it out on her.

Your disrespectful comments sound like, "You're not hot enough to turn me down for two weeks. Just have sex with me already."

You're rude, inconsiderate, selfish and just plain stupid.

Who in their right mind wastes their time and energy on something/someone they don't care about?

You.

You have no idea how many lives you affect.

There are so many people who actually care about her who listen to her problems and miseries--all caused by you.

I love her and I'm always there for her, but there are a hundred things I would rather do with my best friend than talk about you and how awful you are.

It gets old after a while, and I stop expecting for you to ever make her happy.

She deserves so much better than you.

She's hilarious, fun and spontaneous. She's out of your league.

Why she puts up with you is beyond me, but here's what I do know.

You fit perfectly into the "type" she's into, but I know she'll grow out of it. Her judgment of character will improve, and she'll stop wasting her time, energy and emotions on low-life scumbags like you.

You, however, will never grow out of your disrespectful, selfish character. In fact, you'll probably get worse.

As you get older, you'll find time and gravity working against you. It won't be so easy to get any girl you want to do whatever you want. Next thing you know, you'll be 40-years-old with no wife and no kids. No one to call your own.

If you don't make some changes and start treating females with respect, your life will be filled with nothing but regret.

Oh, and one last thing: Leave my best friend alone.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
the beatles
Wikipedia Commons

For as long as I can remember, I have been listening to The Beatles. Every year, my mom would appropriately blast “Birthday” on anyone’s birthday. I knew all of the words to “Back In The U.S.S.R” by the time I was 5 (Even though I had no idea what or where the U.S.S.R was). I grew up with John, Paul, George, and Ringo instead Justin, JC, Joey, Chris and Lance (I had to google N*SYNC to remember their names). The highlight of my short life was Paul McCartney in concert twice. I’m not someone to “fangirl” but those days I fangirled hard. The music of The Beatles has gotten me through everything. Their songs have brought me more joy, peace, and comfort. I can listen to them in any situation and find what I need. Here are the best lyrics from The Beatles for every and any occasion.

Keep Reading...Show less
Being Invisible The Best Super Power

The best superpower ever? Being invisible of course. Imagine just being able to go from seen to unseen on a dime. Who wouldn't want to have the opportunity to be invisible? Superman and Batman have nothing on being invisible with their superhero abilities. Here are some things that you could do while being invisible, because being invisible can benefit your social life too.

Keep Reading...Show less
houses under green sky
Photo by Alev Takil on Unsplash

Small towns certainly have their pros and cons. Many people who grow up in small towns find themselves counting the days until they get to escape their roots and plant new ones in bigger, "better" places. And that's fine. I'd be lying if I said I hadn't thought those same thoughts before too. We all have, but they say it's important to remember where you came from. When I think about where I come from, I can't help having an overwhelming feeling of gratitude for my roots. Being from a small town has taught me so many important lessons that I will carry with me for the rest of my life.

Keep Reading...Show less
​a woman sitting at a table having a coffee
nappy.co

I can't say "thank you" enough to express how grateful I am for you coming into my life. You have made such a huge impact on my life. I would not be the person I am today without you and I know that you will keep inspiring me to become an even better version of myself.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

Waitlisted for a College Class? Here's What to Do!

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

94593
college students waiting in a long line in the hallway
StableDiffusion

Course registration at college can be a big hassle and is almost never talked about. Classes you want to take fill up before you get a chance to register. You might change your mind about a class you want to take and must struggle to find another class to fit in the same time period. You also have to make sure no classes clash by time. Like I said, it's a big hassle.

This semester, I was waitlisted for two classes. Most people in this situation, especially first years, freak out because they don't know what to do. Here is what you should do when this happens.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments