You hop out of your uber and approach the doors of a gigantic and expensive-looking mansion, anxious about the festivities that could potentially occur that night. Eager to meet frat boys, party with your girls, and explore the huge house, you open the back door. To your surprise, however, you are greeted by an extremely inebriated boy who can barely stand up straight and looks not a day out of high school, deafeningly loud music, and girls chasing boys in super scandalous outfits. But worst of all, you go to step inside and your shoes stick to the floor because of the layer of spilled Natty Light that is covering the floor. Welcome to your first frat party.

Here are a few do’s and don’ts to ensure that you make it out alive (and have a good time).

DO go with a group of friends

A frat party can be intimidating for a girl who’s alone, and she can often be seen as an easy target for boys who are looking to get some action (which is a majority of them). Being in a group of girls you trust will keep you feeling safe and comfortable, allowing you to let loose a little and have a good night.

DON’T bring guys

Frat boys already live with 100 guys, they want to talk to girls. They also don’t want to see random men walking around their living space, especially if those men have been drinking. They just don’t want someone that they don’t know or trust around, for their sake and yours because. The chapter is responsible for everything that happens in the house. At almost all frat parties, guys will be kicked out if they are not either members, rushes, or people on an invite list.

DO dress for the theme

If a frat party is themed it is always best to dress up, even if you look kind of like an idiot. If you don’t dress up, it gives off the impression that you either think you’re too good for it, or that you don’t plan on staying long and are only there for the free booze before you hit up another house. Plus, dressing up for a theme is always a lot more fun.

DON’T drink too much

Yes, pregaming is always great. I feel bad for anyone who has to show up to a frat party completely sober. Drinking at the party is great as well, but nothing good ever comes from drinking over your limit; all it leads to is bad and dangerous decision making. If the party has jungle juice (honestly, what frat party doesn’t), just take it easy. As someone who has made the drink before, believe me when I warn you that even a little bit can mess you up. Instead, try drinking a beer or even finding somewhere to drink some water. Also, NEVER drink an unattended drink, or a drink that someone else gives you. This applies to anywhere you are drinking as well.

DO know what fraternity you’re at

You’d be surprised at how many girls can’t get this basic rule right. SMH.

DON’T post what fraternity you’re at on social media.

Like I said earlier, the fraternity is responsible for anything and everything that happens in the house. Respect their chapter and their rules and don’t make them look bad on the internet.

DO have fun

College is some of the best years of your life, and going to a frat party is a great way to have a good time and enjoy your freedom as a college student. So crack open a Natty, hit the dance floor, and have fun!