Profile Pictures.

In today's society, your profile picture is what is going to attract most people to your profile (no, I'm not talking about looks). Do not show how much money you have in your profile pictures. If you are looking for a good woman, it won't matter how much money you have. Most of us could care less how much money you have. If anything it comes off to us as you being cocky or arrogant.

Classy. Is. Sexy. We get it, most people have two middle fingers. Just because you have them doesn't mean you need to show them. That's right, I'm talking about flipping the camera off. That just screams douchebag. That's not the kind of man that we want to bring home to our mama's. Not only is that unattractive, that's also super unprofessional. Keep in mind that what you post on the internet can affect future job opportunities.

If you do drugs, that's your choice. It is nice for those who do post on their profile that they do drugs. That prevents us girls from wasting our time. Just a piece of advice, do not have drugs in your pictures on a dating site. That is a turn off. Bad boys are so overrated.

I will never understand why guys post these types of pictures on dating sites. Do not post a picture of yourself with a bunch of girls who work at Hooters. If you're on a dating site that means your goal is to find a girlfriend, that's not going to find you a girlfriend. I've even seen some guys post pictures of them with their ex-girlfriends. For some of us, we look at that as if you're not over your ex.

Your biography.

Don't put something like "Yo" or " message me". The whole point of having a biography is so that nobody wastes their time on people that they don't have anything in common with. For us women, it's a big step if we message you. We don't know if you're going to be a psychopath, if you're going to be clingy, or even a pervert. We try to avoid those types of people as much as possible. Just put something genuine about yourself. I'm not saying post your entire life story, I'm saying tell us the basics.

Your approach.

I cannot stress this enough, WE DON'T WANT TO SEE A PICTURE OF YOUR JUNK. We are women. We are not a slut, we're not a whore, or hoe. Not only is it insulting to see a picture of your junk, it is also super super unattractive. If you insist on sending a picture of that nature, ask if it's okay first. The majority of us might not reply but it is still polite to ask.

Don't copy and paste a message that you sent to previous girls (trust me, we know if you use the same pick up line to multiple women). Ask us genuine questions. Be yourself. Don't be afraid to make a fool of yourself either, humility is sexy. Complement us without being overly creepy. There are thousands of adjectives to describe people, don't call us hot. Remember, be a gentleman.

It's okay to be nervous. I promise, us women are nervous too. Don't pretend to be something you're not. The best thing I can tell you is treat us how you will treat us the entire relationship. Don't ever let the honeymoon stage expire. If you're putting on a bigger front then who you really are, stop it. We aren't looking for Superman, we are looking for a gentleman.