Life is hard, especially when it comes to the birds and the bees and trying to flirt when you have no idea what you're doing. Luckily, we all have different personality types which makes connecting with people extremely interesting and sometimes beautifully awkward.
Here's how to hit on someone based on your personality type:
For The Classic Extrovert:
Honestly, just be you. All you have to do is approach someone and your fire personality will have them hooked in an instant. Talking to people and flirting comes easy to you because you love people so much.
For The Painfully Awkward:
Flirting is definitely not your forte, but that doesn't mean that you can't use your awkwardness to your advantage. Weird is the new cute, so do that adorably strange thing where you wave from afar and accidentally trip over a chair and people won't be able to resist you, especially that other awkward person that's hiding so eagerly in the shadows.
For The Straight-Forward People:
Obviously you probably intimidate people with your blunt attitude, but sometimes that's what's best! Just say it like it is; let them know you think they're attractive and skip all the uncomfortable small talk that lies before actual flirtation.
For The Hermit:
You should never be afraid to get out there and meet new people, but sometimes flirting is terrifying and way too much for the Netflix junkie. Meeting people online is a fun way to be interactive and get to know someone before actually meeting them in person. However, online dating can be difficult due to the fact that you're not letting anyone see your true persona, so try not to get too invested on the interwebs and put some of that online confidence into your real life!
For The Cool Guys:
So you're awesome and you know you are. You can work your charm with all that you've got and you'll have people falling on their knees for you. However, if you want to find someone with depth to them, this tactic won't work forever, and eventually you'll have to let that guard down and just be real.
For The Perpetually Shy:
You're fun, and you know you are, so just get out there and go be a little bold! The worst that could happen is that you'll be turned down. This isn't fun, but it's a learning curve and eventually you'll find your fun flirting tactics and the other shy person that falls for them.
For The Fabulous:
If anyone owns the dating scene, it is absolutely 100 percent you. Every bit of sass and seduction flows out of you as you wink, bat your eyelashes, and get your flirt on. You know every right move to make and every great thing to say. If anything, you're the one to help all your *sigh* other friends with flirting advice, cause you crush it.
Life is just one great learning curve:
especially when it comes to flirting. However, there is one bit of optimism with it comes to dating and meeting people: no one really knows what they're doing, which is what makes it fun! No matter your personality type or experience, never be afraid to be yourself and show the world just how amazing you are, because individuality is the most attractive characteristic and by far the best way to meet the very best people for you.
Now go get em, tiger.
