11 Pieces Of Fitness Advice For People Who Hate Fitness

11 Pieces Of Fitness Advice For People Who Hate Fitness

It's not as hard as you think.

I am not at all the most fit person out there. I am not someone who will turn down a piece of pizza, nor am I someone who celebrates my major holidays by running marathons. I am incredibly average when it comes to being "fit". But in the last year I have really learned a lot more about fitness and being healthy, and it has really helped me to become a lot more aware about fitness in general. For anyone who just isn't that motivated about working out/eating right, here are some fitness facts that might help you along the way.

1. It's all about the attitude.

I know this feels obvious or not actually "helpful" advice, but nothing is going to change until your attitude changes. If you treat fitness as a chore, that's all it'll ever be to you. One of my favorite motivating quotes is:

"Exercise is celebration of what your body can do, not a punishment of what it has eaten."

Exercise should never feel like a punishment, nor should you feel shamed by what you have eaten. Once you learn to love exercising, to love eating clean and to love yourself through the entire process (good days and bad days), fitness will feel like a fun hobby rather than a painful chore.

2. Find the exercises you love.

There are so many different ways to exercise your body, but it's important to find the one that works for you. Finding a workout you love will make it easier to stick to a routine. I hate running long distances, so I usually do sprint/interval exercises than move onto weight training. I also hate working out for longer than 45-60 minutes, whereas some of my friends love working out for up to two hours. There is no right way or wrong way to work out, as long as you are working.

3. Find the food you love.

I had two misconceptions about nutrition; first, that you had teach yourself to eat foods you didn't like to be healthy, and second, you had to eat healthy all the time for it to "count." Nutrition is about finding the foods you like that give you the health benefits you need. I love avocados and tomatoes, so they are a major part of my healthy meals. I also learned it's okay to eat "unhealthy" foods time-to-time. Eating clean is about balance, eating food you like and not being scared of food in general. The most important part of eating healthy is having a healthy relationship with food.

4. Don't underestimate the power of walking.

When I'm at school, I walk about 7-8 miles a day, and it really makes a difference in my fitness. Walking will do more for you than you would think. It's great cardio, and it's not as harsh on your joints as running. Walking a few miles a day is a great way to incorporate a little more fitness into your daily routine, and I promise you will notice the difference almost immediately!

5. Water is your friend.

I'm still not on board with the idea that water is the answer to any and all problems, but it definitely helps fix a lot of them. Drinking water definitely helps me feel less bloated, more alert, and a lot more energetic. Being hydrated will give you more energy, and it'll help your body repair and restore itself after strenuous activities faster.

6. Listen to your body.

I know this sounds like advice you'd give a pregnant woman, but it's honestly good advice to everyone. If your body is telling you it's sore or weak, you should do a lighter workout or take a rest day, If your stomach is telling you it's hungry, you should eat. If your body feels tired, you should sleep. The more you trust your body, the easier it is to feel good.

7. The buddy system works.

It's always nice to have someone to work out with, or at least to have someone to keep you honest and motivated. My friends at school really motivate me to eat healthy and work out regularly. We text each other encouragements to go to the gym, and we congratulate each other when we eat salads. You don't even need to actually work out alongside them, just have the background support is enough.

8. The scale is a liar.

Well not really a liar, but it isn't the be-all-and-end-all. Ultimately, your weight is a not a clear factor of fitness and health. You can weigh five pounds more than you did six months ago and also be way more fit than you were six months ago. If you want a good way of detecting fat lose/muscle-gain, using a tape measurer to record your body measurements is a lot better of a system.

9. Never diet.

Diets never work for long-term results. A "diet" only works for a few months, and it leads to an unhealthy cycle of making yourself scared to eat certain foods and hating your body when you're not scared of those foods. If you want to be healthy, you have to change your lifestyle. This is why it is so important to find foods you love and exercises you find fun, because those are things you will stick with for the rest of your life.

10. It's a rollercoaster.

Remember those graphs in math class? Most people believe the graph of fitness is a straight, upward line (y = ax) but the graph of fitness more like a curvy, up-and-down, all-around unpredictable graph, with a lot of low dips and high peaks, and a hundred plateaus. Fitness is never just one straight line. There are times where you will be incredibly fit, and times where you will be incredibly not-so-fit. It's just important to remember to keep going and keep pushing.

11. Love yourself.

Once again, this sounds like empty advice, but at the root of every successful fitness endeavor is self confidence and self love. You should be fit because you know you deserve to look and feel your best. You should love your body as much on the first day of your journey as you do on the one millionth day of your journey.

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Little things remind me all the time.

For example, I'll be sitting in the lounge with the people on my floor, just talking about how everyone's days went. Someone will turn to someone else and ask something along the lines of, "When are we going to so-and-so's place tonight?" Sometimes it'll even be, "Are you ready to go to so-and-so's place now? Okay, we'll see you later, Taylor!"

It's little things like that, little things that remind me I don't have a "friend group." And it's been like that forever. I don't have the same people to keep me company 24 hours of the day, the same people to do absolutely everything with, and the same people to cling to like glue. I don't have a whole cast of characters to entertain me and care for me and support me. Sometimes, especially when it feels obvious to me, not having a "friend group" makes me feel like a waste of space. If I don't have more friends than I can count, what's the point in trying to make friends at all?

I can tell you that there is a point. As a matter of fact, just because I don't have a close-knit clique doesn't mean I don't have any friends. The friends I have come from all different walks of life, some are from my town back home and some are from across the country. I've known some of my friends for years, and others I've only known for a few months. It doesn't really matter where they come from, though. What matters is that the friends I have all entertain me, care for me, and support me. Just because I'm not in that "friend group" with all of them together doesn't mean that we can't be friends to each other.

Still, I hate avoiding sticking myself in a box, and I'm not afraid to seek out friendships. I've noticed that a lot of the people I see who consider themselves to be in a "friend group" don't really venture outside the pack very often. I've never had a pack to venture outside of, so I don't mind reaching out to new people whenever.

I'm not going to lie, when I hear people talking about all the fun they're going to have with their "friend group" over the weekend, part of me wishes I could be included in something like that. I do sometimes want to have the personality type that allows me to mesh perfectly into a clique. I couldn't tell you what it is about me, but there is some part of me that just happens to function better one-on-one with people.

I hated it all my life up until very recently, and that's because I've finally learned that not having a "friend group" is never going to be the same as not having friends.

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Buying New Clothes Every Month Has Been The Key To Helping Me Become Happy With My Body Again

Loving my body in new outfits has boosted my self image so much.


Being body-positive has been really hard for me to do throughout 2019, despite there being an overwhelming surge in body-positivity around me, whether through my friends and family or YouTube. I look in the mirror and what I see is someone I want to make a jean size or two smaller like in the past. That being said, I've slowly been coming around to accepting the body I have now, instead of bashing it constantly. A key way I've come to accept the body I'm in now is through buying myself something new every month, like a new T-shirt or a pair of jeans or sneakers that help me see myself in a positive light. When I'm in a new outfit, I feel invincible. I don't think about how pudgy my stomach is, or about the hair I have growing in random places, like my neck or on my nose (yes, not just in, but ON too).

My bank account tends to suffer as of recently because of this, but it's worth it when I can genuinely feel good in what I am wearing every day. I like to wake up and think about how many outfits I can put together, ready to post my #OOTD for Snapchat without caring what anyone thinks. I've let social media dictate how I feel about myself more than I care to admit. I see how perfect all the models are in everything they're wearing from brands I know and love, yet when I try the same thing on, it's a whole different ugly story.

I don't enjoy trying things on to avoid the shame I feel when things don't fit me right, or if something that I thought would flatter me actually makes me look like a sack of potatoes. Instagram has really hurt my body image a lot — enough to make me delete it for a week after one post sent me spiraling. Going through those bumps made me finally realize it's not my fault if something doesn't fit. Sizes range depending on the item, it's the clothing items fault, not mine. Now that I see that, it's easier to brush off something not fitting me as it should. I know my size very well in the stores I frequent the most, so it's easier for me to pick out things I know will look good and not have to worry about the sizing issue.

Buying yourself something new is not something you should limit to every few months or longer. You shouldn't be afraid to go out of your comfort zone price wise every once and a while either. Coupons exist, stories always offer you them when you first sign up to receive emails and even texts. You can be crafty and still get a high price item for less. If you treat yourself to cheap things, you won't feel half as good as you want to. Granted, sticking to a limit is important but there's no shame in going over the limit every once and a while.

I love shopping as much as I love country music and writing short stories — a lot. Yes, I get yelled at almost every time I get something new. I need to save my money for important things, like for my sorority or for medical issues that could suddenly arise, or for utilities at my house next year off campus.

However, my mental well-being is not something I can ignore.

I can't push the good feelings aside to save 30 or 40 bucks a month. I don't want to feel as low as I've felt about myself anymore. I'm tired of feeling sad or angry at who I am, and I want to learn how to accept myself as I am. Buying myself something new, like clothes, is what offers a positive light to view myself under.

Whether you treat yourself to dinner at your favorite restaurant, or to face masks, or to a new movie when it comes out — don't be afraid to do it. Put yourself first and you'll realize your worth and how much you've been ignoring it in the face of poor confidence.

My confidence isn't back up to where it used to be, but it's getting there.

It may not be the most cash efficient method of self-love, but my body positivity is better than it was a few months ago. Aerie and American Eagle have really helped me become happier with my body, and I can't thank them enough for being more inclusive for people like me who are learning to love themselves again in a new body.

There is a light at the end of the tunnel for all of us hoping to promote our own body positivity, and it could all start with a simple purchase from your favorite store after you read this.

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