When preparing to go on a first date, there are many things that should be kept in mind. Although you want to be sure you smell nice and look good, there are many things you should and shouldn't do on the date. Here are some basic do's and don'ts that everyone should do... or not do while on the first date.
Don't over dress
Be sure that you are aware what you are doing and where you are going so that you can dress appropriately.
Don't assume that you're always paying
Now don't get me wrong always carry money just in case, but when all else fails go into the date with the golden rule in mind: whoever does the asking out is the person paying. We are in 2016, although most guys continue to do the asking out, girls if you ask him out that does put you in the position to pay.
Don't make it fancy or overly complicated
First dates should be fun! You are just starting to really get to know each other, explore options such as paintballing, bowling or go-carting. Even if your date is a bust, at least you'll know that the date activity itself was a good time.
Don't talk too much
No one wants those awkward silences, but be cautious not to be overbearing with the talking. It's not all about you.
Don't bring up the past
Remember this is the first date. Don't spill the tea and talk about past relationships or your personal problems because this is a date not a therapy session.
Don't assume you're automatically a couple
This is the first date, not your wedding day. Don't make assumptions or think too far ahead. Enjoy the moment and save the over analyzing for later.
Do be yourself
You want your date to like you for who you are right? Then be yourself, that way if you don't click you'll know it from the start and won't waste either of your times.
Do be honest
If your life is basic be honest. Who cares if you haven't been skydiving or backpacking through the rain forest, you are still interesting. Also, be honest with yourself and your date, if by the end of the first date you are sure that you aren't interested tell your date. You are not obligated to go on a second date.
Do get to know the person
Actually listen to the other person and get to know them. By the end of the date, you'll know if you even want to even bother with a second date or not.
Do have a good time
Although the dating world can be hectic, go into it with an open mind and a goal to have a good time and you will!
Do remember these do's and don'ts
Dating can be a struggle, but you can make the process a little less painful by remembering these simple tips.
