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Finding the Right Woman

Personality always wins.

Finding the Right Woman

This article is for all of my guys out there looking for true love. It's not something you can find everyday and it takes the right person to truly make you feel like nothing else before. That person who makes you feel like someone else doesn't come around often but when you do meet someone like her, do your best to keep her. Don't be with her because she has a nice ass, tits, body, etc., be with her because her mind is so intelligent and relatable to what you do and say everyday.

If you simply do what you do on a daily basis and forget about how women feel towards you, your actions will attract the right woman and your priorities might be something that they may want to get involved with (not intended to be sexual, but you probably thought that way since you're a fucking pervert.) It might not happen the next day, but it's worth the wait because it's not easy to find the female version of yourself.

If she asks you for help with ANYTHING, say yes NO MATTER WHAT. Not only do you show her that you're devoting time to her needs, but you're also offering a piece of yourself to help solve the problem which, in turn, will make her feel more confident about that particular subject, thanks to you. Even if you don't solve the problem, she still knows that you devoted your own time to assist her needs because you actually give a shit about what she's doing.

Do you ever meet a girl and get attracted to the things that she simply does or says everyday (personality over her looks?) There's a gut feeling that will tell you when you come across a woman like that - don't pass up the opportunity to be with her. Personality always wins.

If you do find a girl that you really like at first and then so-so in the future, don't ask her out. If you're trying to find a reason why you really want to date her but something is holding you back, don't move forward with it. I've been guilty of doing this many times and it never works. Speaking of asking her out, do it in person. Calling is acceptable because you get to her each other's voices, but sending her snaps and text messages won't. She can easily avoid the situation by not replying at all or saying something along the lines of "I'll let you know!" Not replying is also an answer (and you need to realize it,) but when you ask her out in person, she can't avoid the situation and she also needs to give you an answer right there, on the spot. It's the quickest and easiest way possible.

Place yourself in her shoes and ask yourself, "would I perform the same actions that I do on a daily basis if I was her?"

So ladies, do I sound "correct" with what you've just read?

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