Finding the Right Woman | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Relationships

Finding the Right Woman

Personality always wins.

23
Finding the Right Woman

This article is for all of my guys out there looking for true love. It's not something you can find everyday and it takes the right person to truly make you feel like nothing else before. That person who makes you feel like someone else doesn't come around often but when you do meet someone like her, do your best to keep her. Don't be with her because she has a nice ass, tits, body, etc., be with her because her mind is so intelligent and relatable to what you do and say everyday.

If you simply do what you do on a daily basis and forget about how women feel towards you, your actions will attract the right woman and your priorities might be something that they may want to get involved with (not intended to be sexual, but you probably thought that way since you're a fucking pervert.) It might not happen the next day, but it's worth the wait because it's not easy to find the female version of yourself.

If she asks you for help with ANYTHING, say yes NO MATTER WHAT. Not only do you show her that you're devoting time to her needs, but you're also offering a piece of yourself to help solve the problem which, in turn, will make her feel more confident about that particular subject, thanks to you. Even if you don't solve the problem, she still knows that you devoted your own time to assist her needs because you actually give a shit about what she's doing.

Do you ever meet a girl and get attracted to the things that she simply does or says everyday (personality over her looks?) There's a gut feeling that will tell you when you come across a woman like that - don't pass up the opportunity to be with her. Personality always wins.

If you do find a girl that you really like at first and then so-so in the future, don't ask her out. If you're trying to find a reason why you really want to date her but something is holding you back, don't move forward with it. I've been guilty of doing this many times and it never works. Speaking of asking her out, do it in person. Calling is acceptable because you get to her each other's voices, but sending her snaps and text messages won't. She can easily avoid the situation by not replying at all or saying something along the lines of "I'll let you know!" Not replying is also an answer (and you need to realize it,) but when you ask her out in person, she can't avoid the situation and she also needs to give you an answer right there, on the spot. It's the quickest and easiest way possible.

Place yourself in her shoes and ask yourself, "would I perform the same actions that I do on a daily basis if I was her?"

So ladies, do I sound "correct" with what you've just read?

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Entertainment

Every Girl Needs To Listen To 'She Used To Be Mine' By Sara Bareilles

These powerful lyrics remind us how much good is inside each of us and that sometimes we are too blinded by our imperfections to see the other side of the coin, to see all of that good.

572118
Every Girl Needs To Listen To 'She Used To Be Mine' By Sara Bareilles

The song was sent to me late in the middle of the night. I was still awake enough to plug in my headphones and listen to it immediately. I always did this when my best friend sent me songs, never wasting a moment. She had sent a message with this one too, telling me it reminded her so much of both of us and what we have each been through in the past couple of months.

Keep Reading...Show less
Zodiac wheel with signs and symbols surrounding a central sun against a starry sky.

What's your sign? It's one of the first questions some of us are asked when approached by someone in a bar, at a party or even when having lunch with some of our friends. Astrology, for centuries, has been one of the largest phenomenons out there. There's a reason why many magazines and newspapers have a horoscope page, and there's also a reason why almost every bookstore or library has a section dedicated completely to astrology. Many of us could just be curious about why some of us act differently than others and whom we will get along with best, and others may just want to see if their sign does, in fact, match their personality.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

20 Song Lyrics To Put A Spring Into Your Instagram Captions

"On an island in the sun, We'll be playing and having fun"

459668
Person in front of neon musical instruments; glowing red and white lights.
Photo by Spencer Imbrock on Unsplash

Whenever I post a picture to Instagram, it takes me so long to come up with a caption. I want to be funny, clever, cute and direct all at the same time. It can be frustrating! So I just look for some online. I really like to find a song lyric that goes with my picture, I just feel like it gives the picture a certain vibe.

Here's a list of song lyrics that can go with any picture you want to post!

Keep Reading...Show less
Chalk drawing of scales weighing "good" and "bad" on a blackboard.
WP content

Being a good person does not depend on your religion or status in life, your race or skin color, political views or culture. It depends on how good you treat others.

We are all born to do something great. Whether that be to grow up and become a doctor and save the lives of thousands of people, run a marathon, win the Noble Peace Prize, or be the greatest mother or father for your own future children one day. Regardless, we are all born with a purpose. But in between birth and death lies a path that life paves for us; a path that we must fill with something that gives our lives meaning.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments