Why do some people find it so hard to just be honest? All I ever ask from anyone is honesty, don't lead me on just be straight up from the beginning.
At some point that girl that you keep lying to is going to be so hurt that she is scared to get close to anyone. It takes a lot of courage for the girl to speak up first and tell you how she feels so when she does be honest with her. If you don't feel the same or just are not ready for anything tell her. If you just want to mess around tell her. If you truly have feelings for her then tell her. Stop beating around the bushes and waiting for her to be done with it. And please do not just ignore her, tell her if you don't want to talk anymore. If you ignore her that is going to hurt more than you being straight up with her.
Why tell a girl that you feel the same way she does and you want to try to be a thing with her when the next day you are just going to change your mind?
Why tell a girl that you would never hurt her when the next day you are going to ignore her and hurt her way more than you would've just by being straight up?
Why make her get so excited and think that maybe she has a chance with you when really she has no chance at all?
Because you don't care about how you make her feel. You don't see the pain because she hides it, you don't see her sit up all night and cry over you. She doesn't want to show you her weakness, even when that weakness is you. All she wants is for you to do what you said you would.
Maybe you are scared of getting hurt because of past relationships ending badly but so is she. She hasn't had it east either but she is willing to try again with you in hopes that you are different, and sadly she will soon find out that you aren't at all different. All you have to do is tell her from the beginning that you have feelings for her too but you don't want to get into anything serious.
We really are understanding if you are honest with us from the beginning.
DO NOT give us false hope.
Once you put a girl through this she will sit there and ask herself what she did wrong and question what is wrong with her. Why couldn't she be enough for you?
But really you are the problem not her. It's you but you let her blame herself for it all.
She will see you around after you broke her heart and yet just seeing you will still make her get excited and get butterflies. And this will make her question what is wrong with her even more. You shattered her heart into a million tiny pieces but yet she still looks at you and wants nothing more than to be with you. She tries to build up the courage to talk to you again, even just a simple hi but she cant even build up that courage because just one look at you and all of her feelings come rushing back.
Do her a favor and stay away. Don't come back it just hurts her all over again and gives her even more false hope. Becuase chances are if you came back right now she would give you another chance even if you don't deserve it.
