Exes have got to go. You have to keep in mind there was a reason you broke up and you cannot expect people to change. Even if the break up wasn't bad just let the old flame die this holiday season.

Ok, so let me tell you why you should not text your ex back this season; picture this it's chilly out, you're comfy cozy on the couch watching your favorite holiday movie. We've got some hot cocoa action, maybe a snack definitely a snack, and all of the sudden you get the urge to text your ex. You want to disrupt all of this serenity with a person who isn't in your life anymore??? No, you're just lonely!

You don't want that pain and annoyance. I know you, I mean not really but I know whoever your ex is, they don't deserve you. You had to deal with the break-up, whether it was painful or not, and you had to deal with their bs and all that terrible stuff.

Instead of going back to the person who broke your heart why don't you just download Bumble, or Tinder whatever you're into, and get out there. Even if you don't meet any of these people you've hyped yourself up, by getting a bunch of matches, and realized you don't need a SO to live.

Dating apps don't work for you? Go hang out with friends! Friends make the world go 'round. If you don't have friends, go onto Bumble and make some! (I swear this is article is not sponsored by Bumble I'm just lonely like that).

Last resort get a little pet! Maybe a starter fish! Or go adopt a kitty, look back at this article though and make sure a pet is right for you!

No matter how dreary the winter gets, and how lonely you feel, don't text your ex.

Happy holidays, from my anti-ex household to yours!