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Don't Ever Be Ashamed of Not Having A Boyfriend

While other girls fell into guys and held themselves up on others’ love, you did that all on your own.

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Don’t ever be ashamed of never having a boyfriend. While other girls fell into guys and held themselves up on others’ love, you did that all on your own. When they had someone to talk to and someone who cared, you healed your own wounds and sewed your own sores. They went through life with company, you went through it alone. You poured your own foundation and built your own walls, while they had a crew. As they flipped through pages of people that once meant something, you dragged yourself through quicksand and mud, and came out stronger. No one was there to tell you how beautiful you were or how much you meant to the world. You found that looking inside out. When people laugh and tell you how weird you are that you never fell in love, tell them how you built an empire by yourself. Tell them how you longed for things not given, and fought for things taken away, and created a life purely your own. Tell them how brave you are; how you fought a whole army with just one sword. How you won. And how you continue.

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