In this day and age, if a guy calls you "hot," it's a compliment. We're females, not temperatures. If a guy calls you a smoke show, a 10, bangin', sexy AF, a hottie, it's suppose to make women feel good.

How about, no?

That doesn't make me feel anything but annoyed.

If you're going to compliment me, compliment me on my intelligence. Tell me I'm brilliant. Tell me I'm driven. Tell me I'm passionate. Tell me I have character.

But please, save yourself from calling me "hot" because it's not going to win me over. How is that even flattering? Stop trying to compliment me on my body and my looks.

It's not even a compliment.

Maybe you should try to take a deeper look. You shouldn't just always look above the surface; there's so much more to be discovered underneath.

I have so much more in store with the kind of person I am, but you won't ever know because you only think I'm hot.

Boys, if you want to win over girls, you need to learn how to talk to them.

Step 1:

Put soap in your mouth and clean out all the ridiculous things you would say to a girl to "compliment her."

Step 2:

Rinse out with water.

Step 3:

Think before you speak.

Step 4:

Now try to start a conversation with her. It's Ok to say, "Hi."

Step 5:

Refrain from saying anything about what she looks like or what she's wearing.

Step 6:

Don't tell her she's hot.

The rest is in your own hands.

To all guys out there, you're big boys now. You can handle simply complimenting a girl on her intelligence and not her beauty.

There is still a beacon of hope out there for some of you, who aren't only about that booty but all about the mind.

I believe in you.

Just do your best and don't be stupid.

Thank you.