The idea of the “overly sensitive" millennial generation is an idea that seems to be growing in conversation and as the butt of many jokes. Is this true, are us 20-somethings really that delicate that we must outwardly state our constant feelings of bullying and victimization due to others practicing and sharing of their beliefs? There may be some of us that feel the need to plaster our dissatisfaction with others on social media, but there are also many of us who refuse to be identified with this cowardly and sensitive behavior.

Cowardly? Isn’t that a little harsh?...NO. An individual who is put in a situation where they are faced with adversity or feel out place and chooses to run away, complain on social media, or tattle to someone of authority, is surely displaying cowardly behavior. On the other hand, someone who is in a similar situation, and may not agree with others, but can stand firm in their values and not feel personally attacked or the need to complain shows strength.

I am by no means saying that we all don’t face times where people have said unnecessary hurtful things to us, or that we shouldn’t make note of the situation if it is needed. However, I am saying that no, most people do not care that the Muslim woman across the room wearing a hijab makes you uncomfortable…you are just a bigot. We also aren’t concerned with your social media post about how the gun rights or LGBTQ activists crowding the streets, make you feel "bullied" simply because you are outnumbered.

I am the first to admit that I have a strong set of beliefs in which I stand strong in, but in no way shape or form will I ever claim a personal attack has been put upon be based off of someone different than myself simply using their right to speak, protest, practice religion, etc. I also am not afraid to admit when my beliefs are opposite yours, however I will not act unjustly in assuming our differences present a danger to my own well-being.

What is my main point of all of this? Understand that the differences and freedoms we have in America is what makes this country so glorious, and is not something in which we should take for granted. While many 20-year-olds will continue to get bent out out of shape over culture shock, new experiences, or a situation in which they are the minority, I will not. My goal for you is to reflect upon yourself and your own biases and beliefs and learn to enjoy the differences between us a human beings, and oh…toughen up.