Confessions Of A College Equestrian
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Confessions Of A College Equestrian

What it's taught me and why I stayed.

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Confessions Of A College Equestrian
Mercede Marcolongo

Growing up I learned what it means to be on a team. There was cheer, dance, and horses. The only team that I stayed truly connected to was my equestrian team. Then I moved on to college and found a new team which is making my college experience happen. For those from OCET who are reading this, I did think about leaving. But thanks to you and others in my life who don't ride, I stayed. This is what I do.

Some people ask why I do what I do and I get it. On top of classes and having a social life, how could I possibly manage horses? It's really just like any other athlete. You grow to love what you do so much that you're accustomed to fitting it in your schedule. You become close with your team members that you even see each other outside of your sport. All I can say is that it's just naturally there. However being on a team with a different species is a whole other story.

My equestrian team is special. We all have this instinct where even though we're piled with homework and somewhat of a social life, we always make time for those who cannot speak. I think that's what makes our team extra special. We share the qualities of compassion and forgiveness when a ride doesn't go smoothly. We're not only here to look good, we're here to work together as a team.

I know everyone has done this at least once. You see a rider and a horse have a not so good round and you either laugh or comment. Being on my college equestrian team has taught me to empower the others, horses included. I guarantee everyone has also done this at least once: comments about the horse. "It looks lame." Probably not. "It got no ribbons and I have to ride it." Are you sure it's the horse's fault? "Worst ride ever." Are you sure it's the horse's fault? My point is, is that I learned to enjoy every horse I ride in IHSA. They might not be Grand Prix but they all hold a place in my heart, just like the team.

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