I know we have all gotten that enthralling invitation to go "Netflix and chill" at someone's house, being left to wonder if that's all the relationship will ever be. You know you and this guy are "talking" and he only keeps things casual, however, you are astounded when he one day gets a girlfriend out of the blue and never texts you again. We are left with constant frustration and angst about the confusing habits of modern dating. If it even counts as dating.

Everyone is always so concerned with moving forward and progress, but when it comes down to it we need to look to the antiquated, old-fashioned dating habits that once were. The "let's just see where this goes" technique should no longer be viable. Waiting three days to call then being on your phone during the date is not cute. It's cringeworthy. And for the love of all things holy do not ask to split the check.

So what, you ask, are things we should do whilst dating now?

Well to start how about asking a person out straight up, not over text, in person and forward. Asking someone to hang out is the possibly one of the vaguest things someone can utter. When you get to their house instead of texting them 'here' how about you actually go to the front door, ring the bell and wait for them.Taking 30 seconds to get out of your car and knock on the door really is a game changer. Dressing nicely is also huge, especially on the first date. Another first date hint, it doesn't hurt to bring flowers or other "tokens of affection." Romantic gestures are far and few between these days and every person wants one.

We all want memorable dates that we can gush about to all our friends secretly hoping they will soon be jealous, but Netflix and chill so isn't that. A movie and dinner is viable, but also expensive! Be creative! Go out dancing, not clubbing and grinding on a grimy floor, real dancing. Go bowling and introduce them to your friends or even ice skating and roller blading are more viable private options if thats what you prefer. Also, you can never go wrong with a picnic. Honestly, as long as your phone is turned off the date will probably go smoothly.

Once you have been going out after a while the confusion begins and pressure to "DTR" (define the relationship) begins. This is undue pressure if you like someone and you know they like you; what is the problem with asking them to go steady with you. If it doesn't work out you can always break up. Let's just all do ourselves a solid and go back to the way things were. Us millennials don't have everything figured out, especially not dating.