Two intriguing definitions of caring include, "to have an inclination, liking, fondness, or affection" and "displaying kindness and concern for others". It may seem like a no-brainer that boyfriends should care for their girlfriends, but what should that really look like?
For relationships where both parties are in the same town, date nights are a great way for boyfriends to plan an activity that encourages quality time, and showcases creativity and thoughtfulness! Guys, be on your gal's team. Motivate her, ask questions about and listen to her talk about things that are important to her, clearly communicate how much you are enjoying your relationship with her, and validate her whenever possible!
For long distance relationships, writing letters, making time to talk on the phone or FaceTime every day, and sending random little gifts (via Amazon Prime of course) are ways to encourage her from afar and remind her how much you truly care for her!
Husbands Provide for You
Apart from the financial provision that husbands typically provide to their families, husbands provide an unwavering support system on which the family is built off of. The hardest thing seems to be to simply let husbands provide.
As college gals, we are taught to forge our own path, to be independent, and to put ourselves first. The hardest thing will be transitioning from this mentality to one where we trust someone else to provide for us. But how will we encourage our future husbands through their provision if we don't trust them?
When dating with the intent of marriage, it is so important to make sure your boyfriend is someone you can trust now, and someone you could see yourself being able to trust throughout life.
