Before You Fall In Love With An Anxious Girl
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Before You Fall In Love With An Anxious Girl

It won't be easy, but it'll be worth it

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Before You Fall In Love With An Anxious Girl
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Before you fall in love with an anxious girl, just know that it's not going to be easy. She will need constant reassurance that you are still 100% committed. She will need to be reminded how much she is loved. It might come off as insecure and clingy, but she can't always control it.

Before you fall in love with an anxious girl, just know that yes, she does trust you. But the millions of anxious thoughts going through her head make it a lot more complicated than just trusting someone. It's a feeling that can't be controlled and is hard to contain.

Before you fall in love with an anxious girl, just know that there will be good days and bad days, and sometimes the bad days are really bad.

She may be having feelings and thoughts that she can't explain herself and overwhelmed her to the point of an anxiety attack. Please just be there for her, don't ask questions, and just remind her that she'll be okay.

Before you fall in love with an anxious girl, just know that not everyday will be a fairytale. The bad days put the good days in perspective. I just hope that you'll love her through it all.

There are not words to describe what anxiety feels like. If you start falling for an anxious girl, just remember that she's trying. It is a hard thing to deal with and you must be patient with her through it. I promise it will be worth it in the end.

And for all the anxious girls reading this, be patient. Your prince is out there. And when you find him, it will be magical. I promise you that.

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