Before You Date The Goal Digger
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Before You Date The Goal Digger

She sets her goals and she gets the job done.

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Before You Date The Goal Digger
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She works for what she wants and she gets it... but can you do the same?

She works and works until she can't anymore. She accomplishes everything she sets her mind to. School and work are priorities for her and she will expect the same for you. She is determined to make the best life for herself and possibly a future family. She has the best determination around to create something she can be proud of.

She sets goals. She makes checklists. Picking a college was a whole lot of research to see where the best program with the best success rate was and she was sure to have a plan b in case things changed. However she also knows things can't always go to plan but she adjusts and comes back. She is the "good girl" who would rather be studying to ace her exam than to be out partying on a Thursday night. Don't expect that to change, it's how she is.

Now you must like her if you are considering or already are dating her, I hope you can handle this. I hope you can handle her asking about your school work or work day. She will push you to be the best man she knows you can be. She will hope you will help push her to be the best and successful woman she wants to become. I hope you can handle her stressing over the small stuff for nothing too.

However lucky for you she knows what she wants. She is confident in her choices and tries her best to do whatever she needs to accomplish getting whatever it is that she wants, even if it is a successful relationship with you. However knowing what she wants comes with the stress and anxiety of her constantly thinking about the future and the present. Just tell her to take a breathe and relax for a second before she starts letting her mind run again.

She isn't afraid of hardwork or a challenge. She is always wanting to go that extra mile and loves some competition. Just don't expect her to take loosing well. She is her biggest critic and no matter what you say that will never change. But once her head is in the game, distract her at your own risk alone.

She is busy 90% of the time, so if she finds time to slow down off her goals for you, you should feel extremely special. And when she does that time is strictly time for you and you alone. She puts her all in and this relationship will be no different.

If you get a goal digger's attention, don't pass it up. She'll be successful with or without you... do you want to join her while she accomplishes her goals or not?


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