Life is filled with several trials. You think you have it all figured out, but then a huge storm arrives. After it passes, you're left looking at the damage surrounding you. You're left with negative thoughts. At that point, you have two options. You can accept the circumstance and stay positive. On the other hand, you can stay bitter and choose to not be happy. Believe it or not, but if you choose to stay negative, your life will only attract more negativity.
You could say I believe in the whole "good vibes" thing. I think that the way you choose to act in life determines what kind of energy you attract. I remember a time in my life when I was upset about the circumstances I was given. I chose to take the bad and blame others for the things that I could not control in my life. I began to have a negative mindset. At that point, I only wanted to be around people who were just as bitter. Seeing people happy was disgusting to me. It took me a while to realize that it was me that determined how quickly I would feel better. Dwelling on the past would only prolong the happiness you could be feeling.
Negative energy attracts negative energy. Positive energy attracts positive energy. It's just that simple. Be the energy you wish to attract. If you choose to be like I was, and hold on to the sadness without even attempting to stay positive, your outlook on life will only worsen. It may be hard, but it's vital to try to look past the trials and focus on the good. Spend time with people who look for the good in life, too. Despite what you think, life will eventually look up. The bad times in life will not be permanent. The "negative vibes" will not last forever.
