There are many things that take time like cooking, growing, and schooling. The most important thing that takes time, as a woman, is finding the one. Trying to speed up the process by endlessly swiping on Tinder or joining as many social groups as you can may only delay the inevitable. He will come. Always know that good things take time. There may or may not be people out there at this moment that are yearning for love just like you, but you need to slow down and wait. He will come.
Men are the most irritating creatures on the planet, they never know exactly what they want and they won't every tell you even when they do know. They live for the moment and for their friends, women always know exactly what they want and how to obtain it. Men like to take their time and coast through life. This is why we as women become frustrated with the fact that they never know what they want. We want them to know how their life is going to be at the exact moment we do, and that is asking way too much. Women are programmed to have their life planned out, men not so much. This is why we must learn patience. Don't worry, he will come.
Waiting for the right one to bounce along may be long and tiresome, but it is going to be worth it in the end. We may dream up a man that is too god to be true which makes us finding one to fit those standards difficult. We must think of realistic qualities in a man, not just appearance but personality, motivation, goals, and morals. There are multiple factors when it comes to finding the love of your life, but in the end you will find someone who makes you happier than anyone ever could have. He will come.
Patience is a virtue, is what is pounded into our heads as soon as we were of age to remember. Why? I believe that our mothers knew what headstrong women we would become and wanted us to know that all good things take time. This is why men take time, they need to realize what they need before women can push love, marriage, kids, and lifelong plans on them. Patience is what leads us to things that can change our lives. He will come.
Never settle. You may find yourself with someone who makes you happy, but only superficially. He may buy you flowers/candy, take you out, show you off, and tell you all the right things but is this all you have ever hoped for in a man? No. You want someone who lights a fire in you that never goes out. A man who knows you inside and out, and you just know deep down that he is the match for your soul. This is hard to find, so you must stop and think when you are with someone and see if they make you feel these things. If not there is no reason to settle yourself with someone who doesn't care for you the way that you need them to. Some men are a safe option, you know they will provide for you and make you happy on the outside, but what about that fire? If it hasn't been ignited you will never know whether or not you have the life you deserve. Never settle, take a risk, he will come.
Ladies, I leave you with this: live your life to the fullest, go out, have fun, meet guys, dump guys, get dumped, but have patience. Know what you deserve in life. Surround yourself with friends who love you so much that they would never let you bee with anyone who doesn't light that fire inside you and makes you overjoyed with happiness day in and day out. Waiting for the right man may takes years, but most importantly don't just look for the love of a man, look to love yourself. You cannot find someone to love you if you aren't madly in love with who you are. He will come, but you must come first.
